GetOverItPlz

Today = Day 0. ... tomorrow = Day 1 lol. I want to start on Monday and just ride it out... today is Mother's Day so I wished her a Happy Mother's Day... got a good, appreciative response and left it at that. From here on out, I am about to just leave it all the way alone. 30 days will actually work out pretty well.. but a mutual friend of ours graduates in June and so I'm sure I will see her at his graduation party.... How do I feel right now? Well... you can read my story here: As far as how I feel... I know the ONLY thing that can possibly make this better is time. For myself and for her. We had a solid relationship that found its foundations built at the wrong time. Divorce and kids will do that. So I'm with an emotionally unavailable woman, and I knew it would be coming. I just have to be smart from here on out. She was supposed to maybe have dinner with me tomorrow... but now with this challenge, *I* have to be the one to say no! May 14-June 14... can I do it?!

Yo Kid! Been way too long... I've been super busy in the studio and everything... also, planning on moving to North Carolina with all of my business partners! Might happen sooner than later... it's been a crazy few weeks. Bad thing is.. that'd put me about an hour and a half away from my crazy ex girlfriend if I move to NC.... lol. Hopefully she'll never know, but it's certainly possible. Just so long as the stupid broad doesn't look me up. Anyway, enough about me! Glad to hear about everything going on with you. New girl sounds like a great fit, man. I'm totally with MiC- just go at the pace you guys are going until it naturally ramps up. Don't overthink it. You guys DO have about 5-6 more months of being in close proximity, and I think the answers will reveal themselves as you go along. Just keep it smooth like you've been doing and let her know what's really good at the RIGHT pace. No one can tell you what things will be by August. So just chill and see where E goes. I'm glad you're back on the saddle. I've been on the lookout for something new, but right now I'm kind of closing up shop. I know I might move, I'm ENTIRELY too busy, and it just doesn't seem right for me to be approaching women at the moment. We'll see how everything goes. Good luck to you homie!

LOL. Sounds like you're doing really well, my friend. And love will grab you by the cajones when you least expect it! I've been talking to this middle eastern girl that comes into work a lot... a colleague of mine said I was on lunch the other day when she came in and she was looking around all sad.... let me just say... She gotta donk (she gotta donk)/She gotta donk (she gotta donk). lol. Let's keep it rollin, Kid. I'm proud of you!

Duh, WINNING. Keep doin' it, kid! WE CHARLIE SHEEN'N IT!!!!!!!!

LOL. Moms gettin' it in! I love it. Glad you had a great time, homie. And congrats on the job and everything else! On behalf of all of your friends here at eNA, I say- CONGRATU f'n LATIONS!

No question homie! Enjoy your vacation, sir. Take lots of photogs. I wanna see the nice Dominican tail wandering the beaches! Be safe.

I usually read Spark Notes, personally... Nah, but fa real. Isn't it interesting to look back at the arc our stories take? And just how similar they are... people pretend like their breakups are so special and unique. And while the people involved are unique, this is an age old problem and will continue to be for a very, very long time. It's absolutely insane how similar everyone's story is. Long distance. Short distance. Moved in. accross the globe. Man. Woman. Old. Young. Doesn't matter. One person takes all the power in the relationship. Leaves. Other person begs and pleads and grovels. First person says no and sends them on their way, to go off and galavant and see what else is out there. Other person is left to pick up the pieces, actually takes the time to learn from their mistakes, becomes better, etc. First person comes back, after facing their own heartache or realizations in an even harsher way, wanting back what they once had. Other person is beyond all of it, and is now in the place of power. The place of success and strength. The ball is in their court. This is an over-generalization to prove a point, of course. There are mutual breakups, there are deviations. But I see this A LOT. It's just how it is. Our story arcs are very similar. And now, we just wait. I'm sure these idiot exes will be back, and we'll be much better men when they do. I'll tell you what- if my ex took the time to learn and to become who she once was (+ better), I'd be receptive to her. Something tells me, however, she will not have learned a thing. Or at least not enough to be worthy of my interest. Just keep doin' you, and life will sort out the rest. I'm proud of you, Kid. One day you, me, SA and others gotta meet up somewhere and go hunting. It'd be too much fun.

I just sealed the deal with a manager for the tunage today, and I have to say, it DOES suck not being able to share that type of stuff with them, even if they are just your former. You guys know my ex was a big component of my music and was one of my biggest fans and pushers. Now she doesn't even like my fan page on FB ^_^ The point is, when someone who was once so integral in your success- or at the very least, your DRIVE to be successful- then it does kind of dull your success a bit. BUT... Don't let that diminish your success and the joy you feel about it. She no longer deserves to be a part of it, so don't let her! I'm proud of you Kid, keep it movin' forward. *sniff sniff*

Damn son, I would have been BUSTIN' HEADS if that was my crib. If you need some muscle, I got you. lol. Glad they found the chumps though..... Where are you headed to for vacay?

Wildflower, The day you can truly move on is the day you stop wanting to wish the worst on someone you once loved. This is a lesson I had to also learn. At some point, you have to wish them the best. If you really cared about them, you should be happy they are happy, and stop trying to base your happiness around their ability to move forward and to love again. I just wrote a post in my healing thread about the good and the bad in people, and how to TRULY be healed, you have to acknowledge both what made them the villian and what made them your hero. Once you can accept both sides of the coin, you can smile about the good times and just take it as it comes. Best of luck to you.