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Sorry this is sorta long... My brother is 21 years old. He hasn't graduated... he's been into drugs since he was about 16... and he's basically messed up a good portion of his life. He hasn't lived at home for about the past... year and a half maybe .... because him and my mom dont get along... ever since he's been about 17 he's been in and out of our house. He can't keep a steady job.. and is basically bumming off whatever he can get. But as of the end of next month he wont have a place to live so he wants to move home.. that's fine... both me and my dad have clearly stated to him and my mom that if things are going to go back to the way they were than we can't have him here.... him and my mom faught constantly.. like yelling screaming.. the whole 9 yards. My house wasn't a very happy place. It's been alright with just me and my parents... we get along for the most part... and my brother comes home every sunday to do laundry and have a decent meal. So fine he wants to move home.. not a big deal.... tonight... our phone rings.. it's him... he had 6 warrants out for his arrest .... adn one of his ex-employers was a cop and ran a background check on him.. and when he went to pick up his t-4 slip.. he got arrested. One of them is for assult.. and i don't know what else.... he's 21 (i'm in sask canada) so there's a good chance he could end up with jail time.... He's my brother.. i love him to death.. but i sure don't like him very much.... My parents don't know what to do.. there isn't much tehy can do.... the other day he told me that ... it's a good thing that i've watched him screw up his whole life because then i don't have to make stupid mistakes.. i've learned from him.. which i have.... but like.. what do i say to that? I guess my problem.. if you want to call it that.... is ... i'm scared for him..... i always am..... i worry about him....and there's absolutely nothing i can do.... he's been arrested before... when he was 17..he got off with some community serivce and 2 years probation.... so he was lucky... he was a minor.... that's been wiped from his criminal record.. but now there'sa chance that's all gonna come back to bite him in the ass..... I'm scared for him.. that he's gonna end up with jail time... or something's gonna happen to him..... i've always been scared that he might do something drastic... something.. like...suicide.... i do'nt think he would.. but that's always something that has terrified the hell outta me.. i know he gets depressed.... and i knwo he doesn't handle it very well.... If anyone can offer me... anything.... advice...some comfort.. anything.. it would be appreciated.... if you have any questions.. i'll answer them as well.... Thanks for anything

So I got my rim pierced (upper ear) last saturday, and i've been cleaning it everyday, soap and water, and a sea salt/water solution that they told us to use. It's been secreting stuff, making it crusty, which they said it would do and it's a good thing.. but I woke up this morning.. and my ear is all swollen. Just wondering if that's a bad thing. Or if it should get checked out. I don't think it's infected. But anyway... if anyone might have some other cleaning tips... or anything.. and if you could answer my previous question (bout swelling) it would be appreciated.

Looking for anyone's opinion here. So i've met a guy at work. He's super nice, and cute, and funny, and we get along great, and i've totally fallen for him. I'm pretty sure he knows i like him, everyone implies it and my friend basically told him flat out i did. I'd love to ask him to a movie or something.. but i'm a total chicken. I know, the worst that can happen is he says no.. and we just... stay friends... I don't believe that the guy always has to ask the girl.. i'm just really nervous. How many of you girls have asked out a guy? were you nervous? worried? ect... and boys.. what do you think when a girl takes that first step... and.. are you guys nervous and such before asking out a girl? I'd really like to go somewhere with this. I really quite like him. Anything you can offer to me will be happily accepted. Thanks

I will be going out with my boyfriend for a year coming up here really soon, i know he doesn't pay for porn, but i know he looks at it, and i know it's to help him get off. Like a couple months into our relationship i knew he looked at porn, he told me he did, i guessi 'm not to jealous about it, i mean, he's never gonna meet any of these girls and he never looks at it while i'm around. I wouln't be to worried if ou can help it. It's a guy thing, i dont think us girls are ever gonna fully understand why they like it so much, but there isn't a whole lot you can do. I'd say if it bothers you that much, talk to him. Tell him. I know sometimes i feel like i'm not good enough for him, but i know that isn't it at all. All you can do is talk to him.. good luck

Might as well get right to the point Me and my boyfriend, have been dating for almost a year, and i feel im ready for sex, we've gone as far as oral, he's told me he's ready, and it's up to me, and to make sure i'm 110% sure i am. Questions: 1) If i'm on birthcontrol, and he uses a condom, the chances of me becoming pregnant are like, slim to none right? 2) Neither one of us has any STD's, so we cant just like, contract one magically can we? Call me a lil crazy, im just a lil scared. I love him to death, and i feel this is a good step in our relationship if it were to happen, my only big fear is pregnancy at my age. I know protection protection protection! lol Thanks if you can answer my 2 questions.

My boy still gets hard when we kiss, or like, if we're just laying on the couch together, and we've been going out for almost a year... not much yu can really do about it... as long as it doesnt really bother her i wouldnt worry to much

I have just gotten back from being away for three months, and in those three months i didnt do alot to be active. I gained weight im gonna say at least prolly 5 pounds.. mainly in my legs... and some on my stomach... i was wondering if anyone has some tips that could help me lose my weight. I take a martial art twice a week, so im hoping that is gonna help, it has before, but i was wondering what other peopl do to lose weight, im considering running on my treadmill i have at home and stuff, anyone got some tips for me? thanks alot

I've only done it a couple times, so maybe im just not real good at it, but when i give my boyfriend a blow job, he said it just feels good but doesnt really get him anywhere, as far as coming is concerned, he said it kinda just slows down the process almost. I was wondering what i could do to maybe make this better for him?

I recently got back from a long trip away from my friends and family. Im planning on having people to my hosue friday, just as like.. hey im home we can all hang out sorta thing. One of my friends cant come.. so he asked if i could hang out satudrday afternoon.. i wasnt asking my boyfriend permission to do so.. but i asked if it would bother him, he said he couldnt stop me... but that it would probably bother him. My friend is gay, and nothing would ever happen between us.. i told my boy that, and he knows that.. but he still said it sorta bothers him..or worries him... is therer anything that i could do to make him reassured that there is nothing to be worried about?

Different families have different ways of doing things. You said in your family the men go first and the women wait.. in his family.. sounds like everyone just kinda goes at once, and im my family, at big family get togethers, it's usually kids go first, then after that it's first come first served. So all im saying, is you kinda gotta try to adapt to how different families do different things. As for your feeling of uncomfortableness, how many times have you had family get togethers with his family? How long have you been going out? As you get to know the family better, you SHOULD become more comfortable with them, and how they work, and just generally being around them, i know my first family get togethers with my boyfriend were awkward, but soon after, you become more comfortable, if not, i guess you have a couple options, either, avoid the get togethers like the plague, or talk to you boy abotu it. I think you should talk to your boy anyway... push the subject with him.. let him know how your feeling, communication is key.

My boyfriend was asking me the other day if i knew where my g-spot was... and to be completely honest, im not exactly sure waht it is, or.. where it is.. can anyone help me out? thanks alot

if they were trying to be different.. why do most of them seem to go blonde? just from personal opinion here.. but seems like the majority of people that dye their hair go blonde.. or a blonde tone with seom red or something... not really different to me.. i personally am quite happy with my hair colour and have no intentions of dying it anytime soom

I havent been at home for the past 6 weeks.. and i wont be returning home for another 6. I'm in Quebec attempting to better my french so I am in a totally different lifestyle. I keep getting sick, quite often, it seems i'll get rid of a cold and i'll get another one a week later. Could this be due to stress? Any input welcomed.. thanks alot

the words NO WAY are coming to mind..if hes pushing sex.. and stuff. thats not cool.. your 14... my cousin is 16 dating a 20 year old.. and i give her a hard time for taht.. come on.. obviously you arnet comfortable with it.. so drop him...

I dont swallow.. but i havent really tried.. whenever ive given my boyfriend head.. hes told me when hes about to cum.. and i just finish it off with a handjob...