Finchabald
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i told my girlfriend this week and i think we are closer than ever before. thnx for the advice guys.
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she doesn't sound liek someone you should be fighting for. you're bigger than her and u deserve better. leave her. She is not helping you.
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hi. its good that u've come here for help and advice. It can take courage. Sometimes cutting can be a phase but sometimes it can be alot more. ive been cutting for between 3 and 4 years now. You should avoid cutting again because you can become addicted to the endorphines released by cutting. there are many techniques to stop cutting, many of which can be found on this forum. If you have difficulty you might want to consider counselling. goodluck with woteva you chose to do. let me know how ur gettin on if u want.
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Im also 17 and ive been through very similar thoughts to yours. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at our age. im still a virgin and im proud of it. i'd be lying if i said getting through this is easy. But suicide is not the best option. You say that your mum loves you - thats great. Im sure she'd be happy to help you. Have you told her how you feel? i agree with some of the other posts. If you think it would help, seek counselling. However, if you're not comfortable talking through your troubles i dont advise you do it. I had counselling and for me it made matters worse. It does help alot of people tho. You've done well by reaching out on here. It is a sign that you dont really want to kill yourself, and if you have any doubt you shouldn't do it. if you need someone to talk to, im here for you. PM me.
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ok. thank you. i think you're probably right. it is better that i tell her. thats a conversation im not lookin forward to
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Im a cutter, and have been for the past 3 - 4 years. just over a year ago i managed to lose all my friends after they found out and didn't want to be involved. After a long time of being alone i have found someone new, who is very special to me and we are now an item. I havn't told her about my cutting but i think it is inevitabel that she will find out eventually. I care about her alot and don't want to lose her. i need advice on whether or not i should tell her? and if i should tell her, how?
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I dont know how you can stop yourself. But i know that a depressed friend isnt a good friend. You need to stop because you may become too much for her. I lost almost all my friends because i am depressed. Dont lose her. Be yourself.
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so you know, i cant log IP address's and their not a member of the site, it is open for anyone to comment. This blogspot also was just for my friends to read however, whoever it is, is within my circle of friends.
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im being abused by someone i know from school,on my blogspot. i wnt to just ignore them or shut down my blog but then it would seem as though he had won. what he says really hurts and im cutting more and not sleeping nemore. what should i do?
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i cant just do that. if my parents find out then i will have no place to go, no money either. I dont think living on the streets is such a great solution.
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im 16 years old
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How Many Times Do You Think About Suicide? [Poll]
Finchabald replied to lostwithlove's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
that was per day by the way -
How Many Times Do You Think About Suicide? [Poll]
Finchabald replied to lostwithlove's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
an un-measurable amount of times a day. to give an estimate, probably about 60. -
I have to live up to alot of expectations from my family. I hate them for it. I suffer from servere depression. I cut. There was a while ago when i was suicidal. Ive started to slip back down that way. I really cant say anything to my parents though. I cant just admit myself to a mental hospital either because they would visit and been ashamed that i didnt carry on with my further eduction and job. It's too much stress. Ive been so down that i started to do solvents. Ive also been cutting much deeper. I kinda want to talk to someone but i cant bring myself to. Im afraid. My friends wont help me out either. Is there any way that i could go somewhere and get help without my parents finding out?
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it's true that it can be frustrating. They see it as some form of a sick fashion statement. However dont be to quick to accuse them of something. Some people who show of their cuts can be hurting as much or even more than you. They can hide it away deep inside. Just try to ignore them.