emgj1984
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So, how did it go when you saw him for the first time in 6 months? I know this is almost a year ago now, but I'm looking back on old posts and now wondering what has happened?
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I agree with Stardust!
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2 situations to relate to: - when my mum died i leaned on my boyfriend even though it had become a LDR, he was a good support, but i wasn't sure about 'us' and after my mum had been dead a month i cheated on him and broke up with him - i was messed up, it was still wrong and there's no excuse. - more similar is when my boyfriend died - i didn't want to be close to anyone else, i talked to him in my dreams, i just wanted to sleep all the time, i didn't want anyone else!
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Oh, and I think you should send that letter Miri! If you get no response you move on... and at least then you've got all those feelings and thoughts out, he's read it etc. I would advise that you say you'd really appreciate any kind of response even if it's just an acknowledgment that he's read it.
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Yes it is normal. I broke up with my boyfriend about 1 month after my mother died. I probably should've broken up with him well before that but I needed his support throughout the time my mother was dying. But I have heard it's pretty normal even without that circumstance. In addition, in my case, it was hard to forget my mother saying "you can do better than him", which I've later realised i should've ignored more because nothing and no one was ever really good enough for her.