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  1. hi. have you tried to figure out what exactly is at the root of your getting sick? is it just the nervousness of liking the person? i think it's natural to feel some of these physical things when one is smitten with another but you should find away to relaz yourself. i'd try meditating to calm yourself, on a daily basis and especially when you know you're going to see that person.
  2. my roomate and i have been sharing an apartment for the last year. we usually live together quite well but lately she's been slacking on her responsibilites. i have become frustrated about the situation as we have had problems in the past and just when i think we're on the same page she starts to slack again. i do not enjoy asking her to do things around the place and need advice on how i can finally get her to be aware of her responsibilities and to remember when she needs to do her share. in the past she had told me to simply tell her when things need to get done, as she says her memory lapses about stuff like that, then when i do follow her request and remind her of what she needs to do, we end up having a terrible spat because she thinks i'm picking on her. i feel i'm in a bind, as she's not only my roomate but one of my closest friends. i am coming to the conclusion that i cannot change her absentmindedness and that i should move instead, as i cannot deal with the continual stress anymore. but before i make that drastic a decision, i was hoping someone would have some other advice? thanks!
  3. i find myself in a confusing situation and am not sure whether it is just friendship or something more. i am a gay woman and have been friends for a year now with a woman who is also gay. for most of the last year we have done nothing but argue and clash, about almost everything. we have only been friends, though i know and she knows that i have been smitten with her since our first meeting. over the last month we have been getting along the best ever, and have had a few physical encounters, one which lead to sex. since then we have remained open and honest about what has happened and even though she knows i like her as more than a friend, she professes that she doesn't feel anything more than friendship for me. my confusion lies in the fact that her words of only wanting to be friends doesn't match with our continual physical actions and this new emotional intimacy she says she feels with me. in my heart i think she wants more than just friendship and is afraid and overwhelmed by what she might be feeling. i am willing to accept her in my life a whatever she wants us to be. though she completes me, i do love her and i don't want to her to be afraid. any suggestions as to what is transpiring between she and i, and how can i help her to open herself up.
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