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  1. Lightning87
    Day 68 So you bumped in to my sister and asked how me and my son were and told my sister to tell my son happy birthday. Well that was nice of you *rolls eyes* But yeah, I've stuck to NC. Still missing you though.
  2. Lightning87
    Think I am on day 60 now. I am not contacting him and obviously he will not be contacting me. So that's that I suppose. I was doing ok but he was in my head all day yesterday and I ended up having a weird dream about him cheating on me...***? So anyway, yeah, doing OK I suppose.
  3. Lightning87
    Day 55 OMG, I'm on day 55? Really? How time makes a big difference. You are not the first thing on my mind in the morning anymore, I think of you occasionally but it's not 24/7 like it used to be. I feel better, I have been seeing friends more and dating. I don't think I would want you back, even if you came begging because I now realise you aren't good enough for me. Your constant attention seeking and dramas are not what I need in my life. I need a strong man and to be honest you aren't one.
  4. Lightning87
    Life is better without you and your dramas
  5. Lightning87
    I actually thought you were a 'man' and had more backbone than just to disappear from my life without even a goodbye. But just goes to show I'm better off without you.
  6. Lightning87
    Day 48 My god, day 48...where has the time gone? So basically it has now sunk in that we really are over and I am starting to move on with my life. Couldn't have been done without the help of my family and friends (and some male distraction ...) but I am finally nearly there. NC has really helped this time.
  7. Lightning87
    Was on day 38...doing so well. Then got drunk last night and gave his mobile a one ringer at 4am. FML.
  8. Lightning87
    Day 33 It does get easier after all.
  9. Lightning87
    Day 30 - I made it. Do I still miss him? Yes...but I am proud that I haven't caved. Now to continue.......
  10. Lightning87
    Day 29 I'm nearly there...not sure if I feel any better for it though...
  11. Lightning87
    Day 28 I'm nearly there, I've nearly reached the first goal of 30 days. I had a bad night last night, started crying and just missing him. But he probably isn't even missing me otherwise he would say so right? Got to keep up my strength.
  12. Lightning87
    Day 26 - nearly at day 30 and reached the target. Longest we have ever not spoken. I don't know what I am feeling, relieved in some ways that I don't feel as bad as I did when we were in a relationship. Waiting for him to text or cancel or have another drama. In another way, I miss him. Hopefully it will get easier and easier.
  13. Lightning87
    Day 24 - can't believe you still haven't been in touch...
  14. Lightning87
    What the is wrong with you?!?
  15. Lightning87
    I think we all need to, myself included, accept that they aren't coming back. If they do, bonus...but now I need to stop doing this to myself, stop hoping and realise there is a life without him. As horrible and scary as it is.
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