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John14087

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  • Birthday 05/04/1987

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  1. Dude, are you me? Just kidding but seriously I'm in the same exact position you are in right now! Damn, I've never been on a romantic date (actually I have but it ended bad since I'm a dumb coward) hell never even kissed a girl! Don't trip because there are others like you out there.
  2. I have this friend ive known for a long time. we hang out a lot but lately he has been really agitating me! Like yesterday for example he comes over but my whole family is sick with the stomach flu. So he was talking a little loud so i politely asked "why do you have to talk so loud, my family trying to sleep". So he says to me "shut the F*** up John". I mean was i outtla line for asking him to keep it down in my own house? The kids a year younger than i am but im thinking to myself, Should I knock this kid out? The more and more the kid comes over, the more i just wanna lay him out and forbid him from coming to my house! What would you guys do in my shoes??? It seems he has an attitude problem and a problem with my authority in my own house!
  3. My mom died when i was 4. I was raised by my dad. SHY AS HELL!!!!
  4. ok someone plz help me out here. I work at a restaurant and there is a girl there i have a huge crush on, i mean HUGE! I really dont have a problem talking to her normally, actually, I look forward to working with her everytime we are scheduled the same day! But there are a couple of problems that prevent me from taking the next step. 1. The Sister My sister works there too, but, my crush and her arent exactly on the best terms. Im afraid if i try to make a move, my sis will make my life a living hell! Even when I hug my crush, i can feel my sisters scorn! 2. Her Behavior My crush's behavior towards other guys is another problem for me. Its like how exactly am i supposed to tell if she is only into me when shes flirting with all the other guys i work with including me. How do i tell!!???? Thanks!
  5. Ok, seriously is it just me or are there ABSOLUTELY no single women out there? Its driving me crazy, its like the last two girls ive have had an interest in already have boyfriends. How am I supposed to get a girlfriend when all the girls have boyfriends. I guess I missed my chance in high school! I guess no one wants a tall, genuinely nice guy! What am I to do!
  6. Hi, I have been recently trying to find a good dating website. I know it corny but I really want to find someone. I was just wondering if anyone knows of any really good ones. The ones I've been on aren't really that helpful. Please Find me a good one!
  7. This is more a commentary than a question. I see that people say "Women care more about personality than how a man looks". I think thats ridiculous!! I mean you dont see Hugo the Hunchback living it up with cheerleaders just because he has a "good personality". They call it attraction for a reason. Physical attraction is the foundation of building the realtionship all other aspects just build upon that! So please, stop saying otherwise.
  8. so ive been talking to girls that im am kind of attracted to and then it hit me. I try really hard to recognize signs of flirting but i seriously cant if a girl is flirting or just being nice. Also, when i "flirt", if you could call it that, the only thing i do is talk and kid around with them. I mean should i be doing more to let them know i am interested in them? If so, what? I am so damn clueless when it comes to this stuff. give me some advice please!
  9. Why does she have to be mythical? I dont want to have to settle with some party girl, not that i would get her anyway but still. Im not the "party type" anyway and why pretend to be something that im not. Wouldnt it to be better to have a girl know u for who u really are instead of some beer chugging, lound mouth idiot?
  10. i havent posted in a while but something been bothering me. Lately i have felt that sex and having a girlfirend are a must for guys my age. I feel as if there is a great deal of peer pressure among my family and friends to get a girlfriend especially among my guy friends. They say like "if u dont go to parties, u wont meet a girl". When they say thay im thinking why should i have to meet a girl at a party who probably wont even remember me the next day because shes so drunk anyway. I dont want to meet a girl like that (drunk girls are a HUGE turnoff for me) anyway. So ive been thinking am i strange for not wanting to meet a girl like that? Am i strange not wanting to go out just to "hit and quit it"? P.S. Its not like i dont want a girlfriend. I just want to meet her by some other means.
  11. hi again I have been thinking about it and i think i have an anger problem. I'd have to say that most of the time, im pissed about something or other. Even the most tiny unimportant things can get me really pissed off. The things my family says to me sometimes gets me angry even if they dont mean anything. My anger got out of control once when my sister and i were arguing and she spit in my face, she turned around and i pushed her with all my might to the floor and it caused her some real pain. My friend saw this and he said something i rushed over and i threatened to beat him up. Nothing happened after that but still, i dont want to end up hurting a family member or friend. Also, i dont feel angry all the time per se, but most of the time im angry. Could i have some sort of bipolar or anger problem???
  12. if ur a guy are u supposed to shave down there regularly because it seems im the only one that doesnt, its like i missed a memo or something!
  13. nvmd she has a boyfriend it was all a wonderful illusion but thanks for the input
  14. hey i was just a wonderin, what are ur guys opinions on one night stands? i know many people do it my friends included, but if i found myself in a situation like that. i couldn't bring myself to do it. I dont know if my opinion would be the same if i wasnt a virgin, but i would think that if i did do it i wouldnt be able to take relationships seriously. And most of the guys i know who do it think of it as a game like who can score the most, u know. theres this one buddy of mine who is like the most promiscuous i know who took a girls virginity away and i couldnt help thinking to myself, hows that girl gonna feel when he doesnt call her back tomorrow or ever for that matter. Throw ur opinions at me!!!!!!!
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