RRISALEE
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My ex broke up with me two months ago, My birthday was about three weeks ago and he found out from a ex best friend of mine that is now his best friend that i had two events. I got mad that he wasn't invited and the way things end between us I was like I can't do it He broke up with me over a text message he always called. he go mad and asked for his movies back and i gave it to him. then he started saying that that he loves me and how can he get over me because he calls me all the time and he still cares. and he wanted to stop calling me but love won't let him stop calling me. so we had a fight last friday because i told him that i had beef with the friend that told him about the birthday thing. he said that i was shady and i got mad we go off the phone and i texted well are you going to tell her that too. and he text me back saying don't pull me in to that bs. so he hasn't called me all week and last night i left a message basically making amends and he hasn't call me back what do i do?
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What Makes Men Come Back?
RRISALEE replied to RRISALEE's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
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The guy I was dating broke up with me because he said that he had some issues and open wounds that he could not close. He said that friends is the most we can be at this time. And he said that it doesn't mean it is over. But my thing is he still calls, ask me if i still love him, and am i mad at him for breaking up with me. Then he calls all the time. And we just broke up this wednesday. He called me 11 times today talking like normal, asking me why haven't i called. what makes men come back?
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it's not the same girl. we are talking about two different girls
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no because she has a boyfriend and he said that he didnt' want her
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i know it was hers because he told me last weekend that it was his friends and he took her to the mcats. i never told anyone that i wanted to be friends after the break up. yeah in the beginning i did tell a couple of little white lies to break the trust but i had to make up for it the whole relationship; and the fact that the kept calling his ex bothered me and he had to keep reassuring that he didn't want her. but she was five years old than him. and he is 24.
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well i dont know. but he broke up with this girl two months before he met me and it took him about two months to get me so i guess. but he still called her. i guess guys go where they are comfortable. i saw him on friday and we hugged and i just started crying. it was the first time that we saw each other since the break up two days after. it was sooooo hard and i just want to die.
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Why is this so hard to accept?
RRISALEE replied to enivel's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Hey I so feel you pain. And I loved how you broke down the relationship. And it is sooo true. I am hurting and i am so trying to be hard about it. But love sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is better to never love than to have loved and lost. -
MEN PLEASE HELP ME OUT My ex just broke up with me yesterday because he felt that I didn't have his back and some trust issues he had. and he said Friends is the most we can be at this time. He said that he loves me very much. tehn he asked me was i mad and do i still love him?? And the friends thing doesn't mean it is going to be forever. What does that mean? Why do men say that? update. i went to his house on friday and there was a car there and i knew it was a girl because he took her to the mcats on last week, i asked him the next day did he have company over and he straight lied to me and said no and i told him that you lied. and he didn't say anything. then he called me later and but i didnt answer, do then i called him because i needed a ride home and he texted me back you didn't drive? i am freaking stranded and you ask me a stupid question like that. i was so hurt that i cant' count on you. so then as soo as i do get home he called and i was like whatever. then he text me where are you and i didn't answer because i was hurt. then he calls me at 5 am three different time and then again at 11 am so what does that mean? why did he ask me that stupid question, i asked did he replace me and he said no but she was over there and he said that was just a friend but what does that mean? i was crying over him but i went over there and my feelings changed to anger! please men help me
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Thanks! Just Going Tobe Really Hard. I Wish I Could Separte My Feelings And Emotions From Men Or Like Men. I Was Trying I Am So Tired Of Letting Men You Away To Mature. The Last Time I Did That I Had To Do That Four Three Years And Now He Is Trying To Come Back But I Can't Do That. I Have Feelings For The One I Just Lost.
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dang that's powerfiul. So I just don't talk, email or nothing just drop everything and focus on other things? Well i am applying to grad school. and ironically i want to a marriage and family therapist. go figure. I am a very strong person in other parts of my life but relationships i am not good. i suck. how do i stop my mom says i get too attached. how can i stop that?
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Thanks! I totally understand what you are saying but I guess it hurts to know what I have to walk away from a person that i love and have feelings for. So no contact at all? then why does he call? just have to get on with me life, and apply to grad school. but i still want him and to make it work. or is that because i am crazy?
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so what am i suppose to do now.? just pretend that i did not meet him? people always concerntate on other things nut it is sooo hard at the the beginning atleast for a week you know. thanks god for my cousin's wedding because i will be working as a hostes. but what else can i do? is he ever thing to give me clousure?
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I just ask him why and he said that he rather talk about it and then i said you want to today and he said that me might not have time so i guess i will never get it then. i don't want to this to be drugged out forever. he just laid down the friends statement and the bounced., he said that still loves me but damn. did he hurt? like he said he did?
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I am just to hurt and I guess I need to let go of the hope that I have that he will come to his senses. He said that this dosen't mean that we will stay like this forever, but he just needs to get his stuff together. he is not ready to commit. but i always wonder well he meet a new person with in two months like he did when he broke up with the other girl. i mean will the behavior repeat itself.. he said that he cried about it and that he was really thinking alot about us and i just want to know why or what was the reason for him leaving. or should i just leave it alone. but then why is he still calling me?