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Mandy: Thanks for the advise. I'm going to ask her out.

Ugh... I don't even know where to start with this. There's this girl at work I'm into. And I think she digs me but I'm dense when it comes to being able to tell when someone likes me. She's very friendly and flirtatious with me, and she's gone out of her way to be nice to me, i.e., rubbed my back when I had a stomachache and fetched me a pillow when I was trying to sleep on an uncomfortable sofa in the employee lounge. My greatest fear is that I'm getting my signals crossed. Could she just be a kind soul with a flirtatious streak? Or does she like me? I figure I can either ask her friend to find out what she thinks of me, or I can cowboy up and make the first move ... an option that terrifies me. I really like her and I don't want to screw things up. Any thoughts on what I can do?

Wilted rose: Hmmm... almost too easy. OK, I guess it's time to cowboy up and ask her out. I know for a fact she doesn't have a boyfriend. thanks for the advise!

There's this girl at work I'm into. And I think she digs me but I'm dense when it comes to being able to tell when someone likes me. She's very friendly and flirtatious with me, and she's gone out of her way to be nice to me, i.e., rubbed my back when I had a stomachache and fetched me a pillow when I was trying to sleep on an uncomfortable sofa in the employee lounge. I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid that I'm getting my signals crossed. To make matters worse, I'm extremely shy and wouldn't know how to ask her out. Could she just be a kind soul with a flirtatious streak? Or does she like me? How can I tell if she's really interested in me? Any advise would be appreciated and thanks in advance to all who reply.