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  1. dude , you are stressing way too much over this .. counting the hours she hasn't called you back .. * * * Well with women you have to take charge and lead , you have to make decisions, do not make excuses for your desires as a man. The girls out there some of them will be very clear and very easy to understand and some of them will be a nightmare to pinpoint what they want ( to determine whether she is into you or not ) , never ever panick or stress , keep your cool in all situations.... unless it 's a blatant NO , acquire the response as a yes and proceed accordingly. what is that ? u shy away from eye contact ...dude there is no woman in this world who should make u shy ! I'm not saying stare like a robot but dont be scare of holding the eye contact go to L.A , chill with the boyz , have fun ... you r stressing yourself too much for this case.
  2. forget email... You see the girl 5 times a week and u think about emails ... it's a written statement that u r a wuss and dont have the balls to talk to her and is bound to fail.... grab your balls and ask her to hangout / coffee...
  3. was big enough then maybe you could get me off >> I wouldn't like that either ... that's an insult to my manhood and is to be taken seriously... well like someone said it before sex is not a chore ,both guy and girl have to make it pleasant ,it doesn't have to be the guy who initiates it all of the time ... it's like a dance you can't dance if the other person doesn't feel strongly that way or it's a crappy love session ... make it more enjoyable , have fun activities with him, sex happens way before the bedroom , go out , relax , spend time together ... make a hit at his ego ... make a bet that he cannot go a week without porn and if he does you'll get a gift..it's kinda of normal .. the guy just jacked off ..of course he is less likely to have sex with u .... or propose to watch porn with him ... it's possible that he says no .. take the initiative ... get some lingerie , get sexy , and with some of your feminine touch he will get big enough to get you off
  4. Well ... i have been in a similar situation and it was awfull .... * No guys do not have an off/on and y ou just flipped and bang it's a hardcore sex session ... when you have smoke there probably is fire somewhere .. there has to be smth bugging him to turn off that sexual desire ... either his state of mind (problems, issues, stress ... ) , either he has a physical problem (erections prbls that he does not want to share , guy pride) or he is no longer sexually interested in you, but if he has already been once, there have been recent changes (extra weight, other girls , or more simply you dont turn him on ), talk to him..dont go straight to the issue and eventually u will get cues on what it could be. * well... he is ur guy and u r the one who knows him best and have the best idea on how to turn him on .... the "please have sex with me " is a real turn off and makes it feel more like a chore,disguting,depressing than anything pleasant. avoid references to the "please screw me " part ... make fun activities , smile , be happy ,dress sexy , get some lingerie, flirt with him... and very lightly with other guys when he is there... just very lightly not to the point it's insulting and hurtfull but very very lightly that the tought of u possibily of u beeing with another man rises in him mind ...just a drop of a doubt ... It has to be done with some finesse ... we do not want to brush his ego and hurt his social values by beeing scandalous * You are a woman , sexy and have an arsenal of weapons on how to get the animalistic side of a man... think about it and i'm sure u'll find ways....
  5. lol ... the fine battle between the mind and body what about you get any other guy to make u cool off .... but if it's really hot and passionate, and u are both mature and can handle that type of relationship ... i would go for it ... but hey that's just me... i like to tango with fire
  6. hummm... I think you are overly insecure about yourself ... unless it's justified. Has he done smth in the past that would justify your reaction like cheating ? Does he ignore or is inconsiderate when he is with u or the other women ... ? Well if his attitude in treating you and respecting u with the other women around you is inappropriate you need to address that ... but if it's the fact that he has many females friends and spend time with them in a friendly way I think you are getting waaaaay out of your juridiction. It's not because you have become his gf that he has to drop all of the people he has known or start living like a hermit ... Beeing in a couple does not mean you should not have a social life Cheers
  7. I think thaughts about the ex /past are inevitable because it's a part of who you are ... that's your story , life , memories and it's a building part on what you are today
  8. lol.... breasts ... our good ol friend ..lol well.. it depends on how big the scar will... well if it's just little marks that go un-noticed or the other person notices only you tell them ...i say go for it ... However it's also depend on how much you have / you want to reduce ... breast define a good chunk of feminity as per 'the guys point of view' , a part that captivate male attention pretty well as you have noticed... My best bet ... big enough so they look good on you and that you love them ...
  9. Well ... for your own sake , you are not completely over her .... so you should not respond to those attempts or answer any call that's in anyway related to her. You and I know that she is not very stable and 99.99999999% of the time people who can't commit don't change in a matter of months or even years ... so cool off your hot guns and skip those calls.
  10. lol... kind of reminds me and my first major breakup. You need to relax...calm down and get your act togeter ... there are lot of posts here on this website on how to handle a breakup and read them a bit. The most major thing that you need to realise is to "man" up and stop crying over this,whatever is the cause of the breakup and get over her, accept the idea of her beeing your ex and the sooner you will accept this , the sooner you'll be over it and in many occasions she will try to get back in touch. so stop crying and just accept it... so relax and just let it be the past. Tomorrow will be a better day 0X
  11. You are sitting on a time bomb here.... If you haven't realised yet , when people tries to push down their desiires, emotions , etc ... sooner or later it blows. Your gf obviously wants to party , flirt , and maybe get down 'n dirty with another ( that's a dramatic picture) but the point is that she wants to have fun and party ... and alcohol and the other gender tends to bring the word sex... If I were you I would encourage her to go ahead and have as much fun as she likes and you should DO the same , go out and have fun as much possible. If she really is the one for you she won't stray and miss you a thousand times when she realises that you are not there , otherwise you should get another chikita. You should never let the boys down because most likely there will be a long list of girls but the boys are for ever ....
  12. Dude, after reading all of the details ... you need balls man ! .. to stand by what you want and respect. Who cares if she cheats on hubby, she surely does not have prb sleeping at night and hubby is in a fantasy world or he knows it and they made an agreement, the only person it bugs is you ... why ? you voluntarly agreed to the sexual relationship and now getting confused with wishing to have a full relationship. As you have noticed the best u r ever gonna get is 3rd backseat row and if you don't like it ...cut things loose or bring it to the strictly platonic friends zone and STICK to it ! Why is she doin the 2-man tango thing ? pointless to figure it out ... people cheat for various things and all of the time it's based on emotianal states so trying to use rational with explaining the siutation is like trying to ask a psychologist to explain the laws of combustion in a nuclear reaction. She can be in for the thrill , maybe for the sex , maybe because u r good in bed LOL, maybe she likes your physical composure, maybe she likes to be in a 'dangerous situation' where she could be caught , maybe because she wants hubby to find out... so many possibles reasons. 20 years she made a decision you never figured out ,screw the pride thing , if she wanted to be with u, she would have taken the proper steps long ago ... so stop stressing yourself about what is goin through her mind. The situation is simple, you have a bed buddy you can either enjoy the goods but this is no place for 'real love' and weak minds ,if you can't take it ... get out of the game Peace.
  13. Feel free to care for her and to hold a special place for her in your heart but beware as your heat is not unbreakable and it's up to you to keep it sacred and away from useless painful emotions. The past is the past, her choices were made and today is a new day ...embrace the future , learn from the harsh lessons and let it be peace.
  14. Well, it all started as a contract for company x the contract was 6 months and at the end of the 6 months they re-newed the contract ... but the 2nd contract is almost over in less than a week. The policy at company x is that if u keep someone 4 more than a year that means the position is required so it leads to a permanent position. Now i've been asking for 3 weeks to my mgr what's the deal , whether or not he is going to keep me and make it permanent and he is telling ' do not know yet , checking with human ressources and boss' * * * .. there is less than a week to go and they still havent figued out brief i've started looking for other jobs... but it seems i unconsciouly fails them because i don't know where exactly i stands .. and it's frickin obvious that company x needs more people and we r short staffed ... A couple of hours i sent an email to my boss asking him where he stands .. but it just add more to the stress ... on top of that he has a blackberry so he'll see the email as soon as i've sent it ....
  15. I think you deserve applause of not cheating and resisting temptation... Is it a physical need that you feel , do you feel like wanting sex with a guy different from your fiance .. ? Is it that you feel more appreciated with another and wants to take it higher ..? Which one it is you need to figure it out before getting married because in my point of view marriage is a huge level of committment and engagement that deserves the utmost respect... Do not take it lightly, do not engage if your heart / body feels the need to experience sexual adventures ....
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