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  1. jayne
    First of all, honest and open communcation is the best answer. talk to your Mom and Dad...be bold. There is no easy way out of this, but you must commit yourself to taking the high road and doing the RIGHT thing....even when the right thing is not the EASY thing. This is the time to talk to a minister...even if you don't go to church. You really need to reach out for help. Good luck, I'll be praying for you.
  2. jayne
    for what it's worth...I think you should sent him a very heartfelt lettter expressing your concerns and tell him exactly what your expectations are...for example, "Unless physically impossible due to immediate danger I would like for you to call me 2 times weekly and sent me a short note on the days we don't talk on the phone." Spell it out for him and see what he says!
  3. jayne
    Thank you soo much for your support... We have talked for hours about this...he says that the thought of being with a man sexually is something that he never thinks about, and when he watches the porn that he does not imagine himself in the fantasies, just that there is something intriguing to him about the whole thing. He says it is just something that he does when he is lonely and feels like he needs some intimacy.
  4. jayne
    Thank you for your response...that is what I thought too...let me tell you what he said to that. "The first sexual relationship I was in was with Sarah and it was for 5 1/2 years. She like to watch porn...two guys one girl...two girls one guy...ect. As our relationship grew over the years we started doing different things. Not everytime we had sex, just when we wanted to be kinky. Because of that, I think I am conditioned to that being erotic. I don't know why, but I do. Lots of other things turn me on as well...that is just one thing. " That relationship ended 10 years ago
  5. jayne
    One more thing...he said that he does look at gay porn on the internet. He said he did this because he and this girl used to watch gay porn together and there is something erotic about it...but he is not gay. What do you think??
  6. jayne
    My boyfriend and I are both professionals in our 30's. I found a pair of womens underwear in a closet next to a box of casual womens clothing - wig - sex toys. John told me that several years ago he was in a 5 year relationship with a women - they had lots of kinky sex - including him wearing her underwear and her dressing him like a woman. He stated that he never went out in public like this and never put it on by himself. We almost broke up last week and he stated that he got that box of stuff out thinking, "I thought it was kinky at the time and just wanted to get off...so I tried on the panties and they did not even fit. that's not who I am anymore." He says he is not gay, but he just wants to please the woman he is with and so long as it does not involve animales, kids, or a 3rd person, he would do about anything. What should I think about this????
  7. jayne
    Snooping was completely wrong of me to do. I did not trust him...that however, in my opinion, is minor to the fact that my boyfriend who I love may be GAY!
  8. jayne
    Thank you for all your insights...I think I am going to be extreamly calm and tell him everything and then tell him that I don't know what to think. How will I know if what he is telling me is the truth or if it is just his way of minimzing the situation??
  9. jayne
    Thanks for your reply. The reason why I was snooping is that I was at his house a week ago and checked his caller ID while he was out of the room...an ex-girlfriend had called him and I became suspicious. I am very calm right now...just don't know if I can trust him to be honest with me about this.
  10. jayne
    I need help! I was snooping at my boyfriends house today (we are both professionals in our 30's) and I found several pair of womens underwear with stains in them that look like a man had worn them. I also found a box with womens clothes, make-up, and sex toys. In addition, I got on to his internet and found where he had been surfing sites about transvestities, gay and anal things. What should I do...is he gay?? bi???
  11. jayne
    thanks for your input. He has not said a word to me about being self-conscience about this. However, he did recently tell me that he lost over 100lbs about 6 years ago....he spoke about his tough childhood full of name calling and loneliness. This surprised me as he is 6'2 - 185lbs - and has run in 3 marathons since I have known him! Do you think I should say something?? Amanda
  12. jayne
    My boyfriend and I are both 30 year old professionals. We've been friends for years and started a romantic relationship 3 months ago. He was very slow at moving forward with me physically...I just thought he was being respectful. When I told him I wanted more, we started moving forward...and then I realized that he had a very small penis. 4 inches erect and thin. This does not bother me. We have only been intimate 3 times....he got an erection the last time we were together, but he did not orgasm. What can I do to make him more relaxed so we can have a satisfying sex life???
  13. jayne
    Thanks for reading my brief post... Someone at work who I only see at work about once a month asked me out. For two weeks things were great...he was calling every night, sending e-mails, paging me, ect...then after our third date he said he would call the next day. We kissed for about 15 mins and then he left saying he "once again had a great time!" Needless to say, no call! He has only called once this week and sent me two brief e-mails. Always asking, "hey, what are you up to today?" but not saying anything about going out again. Am I getting the brush off.... Jayne
  14. jayne
    I am a 29 year old professional female. My boyfriend of 2 years, who I thought for sure was "the one" for me, broke up with me a year ago. I still think about him every day and still find myself driving by his work and home, even though I am trying to move on and date other people. He has moved on and is getting married this summer. So... #1 How do I get over him?? #2 Will I ever met anyone who I loved as much?? Thank you for helping me! Jayne
  15. jayne
    I know it seems hard to see right now, but God does love you and He has a great plan for your life....but you have to stop looking at the worldly things and start looking toward Him. Read The Purpose Driven Life...trust me, it will change your life forever! I will say some prayers for you. You sound like an honest person who has a heart of gold!
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