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  1. Damn son. We both had revelations this week. Hey, at least you guys weren't together. But definitely man, this one is OVER. Done for. Finito. Goodbye. You are doing the right thing by just leaving it alone. Also, you WILL forgive her one day. I hope for your sake you do. You can't harbor a grudge like that forever, it'll consume you. And for what? For a woman that would do that to you? You need to just throw that sh1t over the bridge and walk away. I wouldn't waste your strength or energy being "mad" at her any longer than what is natural. Let your anger and rage flow out of you, and then LET IT GO. Please don't hold onto that for too long man, it's not worth it. Look at it this way- you are about to embark on an incredible new start. You're young enough this will not matter to you at ALL by the time you're in your mid 20s. F em. Check out my thread man, my weekend was NUTSO. -P
  2. Oh this should be fun... lol. Not that I would contact you anyway, but let me get something off my chest. For the longest time, I had my doubts about you. Before you left for the military... remember how I tried to dump you? Remember how I tried to move on with my life, even back then? How you cried, and how I even changed my status to "single"? I remember being over the entire situation even back then. I told you how things went down with the other girl I was dating that joined the military, and you promised things would be different. But you taught me that you're all the same. There is no such thing as "different". Everything we went through over the past 10 months or so, it was more or less a case of need over want. I wanted to be free, but I had become so accustomed to having you around, and when you left, I became bored. I didn't have anyone to spend time with in the way I did you, I missed what you were to me more than I missed YOU. And I let that begin to control me, and how I acted. I had long been bored with the relationship, but I chose to continue it because I had got so used to being with you. We spent at least every other day together. Oh, but we had good times. I don't believe I wasted time with you, not at all. Even though things were getting dull, I know we could have spiced it back up. And I was ready to when you returned. To go back on day-tes, to move in together, and to bring that fire back. I really missed you. Now, I barely even think about you. You were not particularly good in bed, and near the end THAT even bored me, even after not seeing you for 2 months. Not a good sign. LOL. Thank you for giving up on me, so I could begin to believe in MYSELF again. This has been a great experience in the end, and I hope you're having the time of your life. I'm living my dream, and your knees and shins are still f**ked. I hope they figure out someway to replace your knees without, ya know, having to replace em, because that SUCKS. Good luck, stupid. You gave up on the best thing you ever had. That may sound conceited, but I know I was good to you, and you are dellerious. -P
  3. LET HER HAVE IT, KID!!!! That's what I'm talkin' about... be strong, move on. -P
  4. YO KID!!!!!!!!! *slap* HEY! Pull it together, will ya?! Like you said, this is YOUR day. Don't make it about her. You had a great night (aka won hella money). Your friends reached out to you, many before the end of the morning! I bet people are blowing up your FB with "HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOMIE!"s and the like. Who cares what she's doing? Maybe she's actively trying to hurt you. You ever think about that? Maybe she's not over you and she wants to try to make you feel something towards her. Or maybe she really is indifferent. Maybe she's so beyond you that it's just another day to her, and she doesn't even remember it's your birthday. Again, who cares. I know it's not easy to just go about your day when you want to hear from ONE person. I've been there, believe me, I have. But you guys aren't together anymore. It's not her job, nor is it yours, to greet one another for holidays or anything else. You just gotta go forward man. Enjoy YOUR day. If you need anything at all, you know where to find me. Happy birthday man. -P
  5. Love this post. Bundles of truth to be found here!
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