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  1. if he would be going to a club with that girl and all his friends...that's one thing. But if he's planning to go clubbing with that girl ALONE...then there's a problem. I would never except my bf going clubbing alone with another girl...think about the atmosphere : it's his b-day, he'll want to drink, everyone is dancing and grinding, and he has a girl with him...NO WAY. Now about you not being legal...is it strict where they're going? I remember when I was 17 and my bf was turning 21 and I almost didn't get in but then we finally convinced the bouncer. The trick: if you are with a number of other ppl who are legal, chances are that they'll only card the first few and when they see they are all over 18 they'll just let the others in, try to dress classy not trashy, and don't wear too much makeup because it makes you look like you're trying too hard to look older, AND if you do get carded ...I say if your b-day is soon your best bet is not to lie and show him your real id...try with your bf to tell him that it's ur bf's birthday and that your the only one out of all his friends who's under age, if that doesn't work try to hand him a bill... but anyway usually they won't refuse...because think of it : a birthday, ppl want to get drunk and spend a lot of money...are they really going to refuze a bunch of ppl because one isn't legal? anyway hope it works out.
  2. thx for the replies... I do sincerely like him, i would never get back with my ex for very specific reasons...and even had a small thing for his friend toward the end of our relationship, which lead to a crush after we broke up. I have no contact with my ex anymore, i just run into his friends a lot since we all live in the same area. just to add a little more to the story. I mentionned before that when i run into him he'll casually flirt with me. Well I forgot to give a concrete example of that. There was on one occasion where i had run into him with one of my friends and we were completely wasted. He took care of us the entire night and made sure we both got home alright. Well, about a month after that, I of course ran into him again, and I appoligized for him having to take care of my friend and I and how it was very nice of him to make sure we got home safe. When I said this, he put his hand on the small of my back, smiled and said : "anything for you sweetie" ...then he gave me a kiss on the cheek. Now I don't know about anyone else, but to me...that is MAJOR flirting even the way he said it I really felt something........................ but again i don't know what he's thinking...because friday (yesterday night)...I was out with some friends and ran into another one of his friends named Eric. Well when the night was through, I was thinking about Alex (the guy I have a crush on) ...and I sent him a casual text message saying: "I ran into your friend Eric tonight and it made me think of you so i thought i'd say what's up? take care and have a good night." I thought a lot before sending it if it was really a good idea since i don't really have contact with him or hang out with him, and i didn't want him to think i was sending it to him because i had another drunken night ...(I had only had one drink yesterday night, so i had full control of what I was doing)...I thought why not? Maybe it'll make him think and he'll text or call back...well he hasn't yet...or i don't know if he ever will. I guess I should forget it...but then I just don't understand why he keeps letting off this vibe when i see him...When I used to know him while I was with my ex, he was never the type to really play girls ...he's had pretty steady relationships....................but i don't know , maybe he just flirts with me in a friendly way and doesn't see it in any other way like I do. But, about the text...do you guys think that was pushing it a little? I know I'll run into him again and I'll be so embarressed to see him if he doesn't respond back to it...how humiliating!!! lol
  3. hey ppl i haven't been here in a while ... anyway i just need some general advice or some feedback and honestly i just need to let this all out... I don't know if anyone believes in destiny...I sort of do and don't i'm not really sure myself. Anyway, I feel like I trapped myself inot these feelings that just won't let me go...let me explain: I had a bf who i broke up with one year and a half ago (because he was a big jerk and didn't really give a crap about our relationship)...anyway I realized a while after breaking up with him, maybe a few months, that I had a crush on his best friend. I never realized it while I was going out with him because i was so into my boyfriend...but it came to me when i ran into his best friend one day, and i realized that I had always randomly talk about him to my friends, said what a nice guy he is, how hot he is, how when he talks to me he makes me feel so good, etc. and when i ran into him I got these butterflies in my stomach. I called him once about a week after running into him, we talked for a little ...and he's never called me since , nor have I. (I think he took it as just a nice way to catch up with someone from the past ). Well I always tell myself to forget him since he's my ex's best friend and i figure he probably would never pursue anything with me since he might think it's be weird .............................and I do forget him but then I ALWAYS run into him...I ALWAYS DO!!!!!!! for the past friggin' 6 months i have just been running into him on different occasions and everytime i see him my knees get weak, my heart jumps into my throat, and even when i say hi i act like a little school girl...every time we see each other i get a vibe that maybe there might be something there (and usually i'm not wrong about these things)...he flirts with me in a subtle way when he sees me , and i know he thinks i'm attractive and nice..................but yet nothing ever comes of it...we just talk and say hey what's up for like 10 minutes and then either of us say we have to go..........but in those 10 minutes i feel like there's something!!!!!!! BUT I DON'T KNOW!!!!!!! This may not sound like a big problem but it really is because the more i run into him the more i think about him and get distracted from important things like school, etc. It's like after i run into him he'll be on my mind 24/7 and then some time will pass and i'll meet someone new and start to forget him and then i'll see him again, and i won't be interested in anyone else or in the guy that i'm seeing...sometimes i feel like maybe this is just a stupid fantasy that i need to get over....but how do i do that? has anyone ever felt this way? Sometimes i'll be out on the town and something will remind me of him and i'll hope to run into him again....i feel like i'm crazy, i mean i used to know him pretty well when i was going out with my ex but it's been so long since then i feel like i know him but in another way he's like a stranger.....................................................just write anything plz...advice, opinions, if you've ever felt like this. thanks for reading i know it was long.
  4. about 4 days before i got my period every day i was getting discharge that was brown.....but i thought it was just the start of my period...is it normal?? or should i talk to my gyno about it??? about the blue....i think you should call your gyno and make an app. to get it checked.
  5. Well, I agree that there is no point in getting jealous over something like that and I feel like jealousy doesn't solve anything anyway. But, if you have a gut feeling about something I don't think you should ignore....maybe it's just me, but everytime I've had an intuition about something i've mostly ALWAYS been right. It all depends on how you feel in your relationship....does he lead you to feel insecure? does he say things to you that make you think he may not be very serious? Has he cheated on any of his past girlfriends? Who is the girl...what relationship does he have with her? These are questions I would ask myself to not ignore my feeling...If I feel like I could trust him, like he's always been a great bf...then I'd forget about it...but if some of your answers make you uncomfortable...maybe you should rethink some things or be more aware.
  6. I think it's wrong to cheat...but unfortunately in today's society it tends to be a trend. I think that if your bf/gf cheats on you ...it's important to let them know that it's unacceptable. The only way of doing that is to break up with them...if they beg and make a big effort to get you back I feel like everybody deserves a second chance and if you really love them you should take them back and see what happens...but like the others have said...don't be blind...be very aware of what's going on in his life, and if it happens again.....no more chances. It's done, it's over.....and he/she won't change. People who cheat once - mistake....People who cheat more that once - not ready to be serious............That's my modo.
  7. so it's a little paper that they give you???/ do they call you in to come and get it???
  8. yea that be a cool thought if there wasn't so many std's out there. Your partner trusts you with their body so i think it's horrible if ppl just go out and sleep with the entire world just because one person doesn't satisfy them.
  9. this may sound like a stupid question....but what exactly are yeast infections? I mean what happens down there when you have one?
  10. thanks for the responses.........empathy, why are you sure it'll come back positive for you?
  11. how long should I wait prior to the last time I had sex before getting tested? and to the last post...........why are you absolutely sure you have it??????
  12. what would be some symptoms???
  13. hey everyone, I just wanted to post this because I have been very paranoyed lately...well, I recently saw this show on tv about a girl who got HIV from a bf she trusted but he cheated on her...and now i don't know it has made me very paranoyed since in the past i have been with a partner that had multiple sex partners before me and he said he was tested but i heard there is a special test only for hiv....and i don't know if it was for that. Anyway i don't even talk to him anymore...and now, i'm just a nervous wreck. I want to get a test done just to make sure but it scares the heck out of me...i hate tests and i hate that THAT test determines if you're on your journey to the afterlife............should i only get tested for HIV if i have symptoms??? cuz i have none........or should i just go???? Is there a lot of ppl here that have gotten tested for that?? How does it work....do they call you and tell you over the phone?? how long does it take?????...and when a guy is tested........does that usually mean he is tested for everything???????? or does it just mean that the gyno looked at it....................................................just answer with anything i'm so freaked out since i saw that show.
  14. Well obviously safe sex is important these days. I've had problems where the guys will use a condom but it won't stay on.....once it just slipped off and got stuck inside me ...............................so does anyone know what the best kind of condoms are? ones that'll actually stay on!?!?!?!?!?
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