Sashenka

I did exactly the same thing when I was like 14-18.. But I am 20 soon and practiclly grown away from the behaiour. Though I didn't want to date a guy and when he fell in love with me and saw hom for what he was, it's stopped and I could finally be together with Nick as I really feel for him after he fell for me.

Good question I have a few songs I listen to when it comes to relationship.. When keeping faith in my relationship this is the songs I listen to: Sting - Fields of Gold Sarah McLachlan - Angel And a lot more of songs.. I have actually more when I am sad but I will just pic a few.. Josh Groban - Remember when it rained Black Eyed Peas - Anxiety And some of Lacuna Coil and Evanescense..

I have never forgot about a love I have had.

Well, I looked for those symptoms and such and none of them are indicating I have it. Maybe it's just me but I will still go and check with a doctor.

Yeah, Thank you.. Though I have made a ultra sound, but by then they couldn't see anything wrong.. But I really have this feeling about this.. And I am almost never wrong when it concerns my health.. But I will check again..

I am 20 now and I was 16 when I met my first love.. I remember him like it was yesterday, though he wasn't the best way to start relatioships I think because he was to.. aggressive. Well, I had really fun times with him actually. Even thought I think I actually did make the hit of the biggest prize thought my chances was 0.01 to find him I know have a guy who I intend to spend along time with in my life. I will never say forever, because that can no one actually know. But I know one thing, I have never realized what love was until I met him. Though I have had a few relationships, but this one is the first serious relation ship. And the first relationship always will be the base of your new ones. That is how we learn. But damn, Daniel, was special. Though not always nice, but he was special. But I don't think I really loved him with all my heart, I think I actually can't let myself follow my heart to 100%. But I have to admit he was my first love.

Not that I try to get pregnant but here's the story.. I have had sex since I was 16 and yes, I have been on pills and stuff, but I have quited after a while since my family have problems with heart disease and blood problems. Well you know what I mean. So I can count about that I have had sex 100 times if not even more.. and then I mean unprotected, and I haven't got pregnant. Not even close to it. And women on my family's generation have a high fertility. I mean, my little sister got pregnant the first time she had sex, and it was umprotected. For your information my little sister was then 17, and now 18.. She took abortion then though. As I am now 20.. Going steady with my b/f as always.. I still haven't got pregnant, not that I wish for it. I don't want kids in this young age of mine, maybe when I am 25-26. But GOD, Just once, and I would gladly do a abortion. Just something so I can know that I can get pregnant. -Sashenka

I aint in that category that needs adivce that often.. But how do I know if I am interested in this guy I met online? How do I know that it isn't just excitment of anything new? I feel like he is becoming important to me.. The question is, how important? - Sashenka

Commication is the healthy way of a happy relationship

She is problaby insecure about the whole thing and problaby thinking she is doing wrong. Talk to her, Because she has something she wants to tell you problaby, or maybe it is the school. But from what you said about not hearing from her shows that she is worrying about something that concerns you in some way. Not to be harsch, but I guess that you are young, not that I am old or anything either, but I have studied psychology to much to not at least guess on this. People say that they wan't to spend their lives witht hem forever, or say that you are so special and not like others. This doesn't mean they say it in the way of lying, everyone that says it, (well mostly), have a inner wish of having that come true. She really likes you, but something is bothering her. And she means those words she said to you, I don't think she want's to be just a friend with you.. I think she likes you alot. Bot in most cases like these, I think there is something bothering the person. I will just say that I do not claim I am right in this subject. But I am pretty sure of how girls work and think in these situation. Maybe she thinks she has done something wrnog or that she has mistreated you in anyway? Talk to her after the finals..

I will say one thing with two words: Move on! Me and my b/f said I love you after two months.. But though, it clicked immedietly between us.. And don't give a guy the chance to be able to foll around with other girls. You did the right thing in my eyes! You trusted him, thereforeee you didn't question him at all and relied that he wasn't cheating on you. But what he had said to you is just cruel. And he probleby jumped into the realtionship wihtout thinking. but still, give it another chance, and then you will know how he is, the true him will come forward and you will see what kind of guy he is. But everything is up to you, I have just given you a suggestion.

Ok, From that I disagree with A|n or how to spell his name correct.. I am a person who told my b/f and he told me at the same we loved eachother.. If you feel confident enough to say it, then say it, but wait a little longer until you feel that NOW is the time to say it.. I have been raised in the way, if a person loves you, and you express your feelings no matter what say it do it and show it the way you want.. My father have raised me into do the things my heart tells me.. There the word called "blind-love" steps in.. But I believe in love. And you will feel when she is ready.. Trust me, when her eyes tells you that she loves you.. When you kiss or are talking.. When she smiles that secretful smile.. then you know she loves you..

in some matters you guys are right, err, and I dont say you are wrong and I are right.. Nevermind, you know what I mean.. I have been reading about dreams and their meanings.. We dream often about what have happened under the day or what have happened before.. Every memory you have is connected to your dreams.. So if you think closely, maybe something is hidden in the dream, even though you guys play toooo much video games..

There are many things that can be the answer of this.. But problaby something has happened, just get down to busniess and talk to her. Something is obviously bothering her and it's tearing on you and the relationship. Just tell her how you feel and that she needs to be honest with you if she want's it to work out in the relationship. To talk about these things makes it better and that is the key to a healthy relationship.