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I am sure I'm not the first person to ever have gone through anythign like this, but to me - it just seems like it's just me. I am a 49 year old divorced woman. I hvae been divorced for about 20 years. During that time I have been in a few relationships. Not more than four. None of those relationships worked out. For the last 7-8 years or so - I haven't really even been dating anyone. I am beginning to wonder if I will ever date anyone again. I have gone through periods of time when I have felt completely sexless. Then I think I just entered a period where I mostly feel depressed and lonely. I am - to say the least - getting older. I feel that my time for having a good relationship with someone is running out. I feel that it will never ever "happen" for me. And this is something that I have wanted for so long. I meet men that I like, but nothign ever happens between us - or they act interested and then they disappear. I wish that someone could or would tell me what to do. I feel so helpless at this point. And the loneliness is taking it's toll on me. I am not an unattractive person. I am smart and friendly and really a wonderful person. I don't really know what kind of response I am looking for here. Maybe - someone can renew my hope in some way. Thanks, Topanga3

If you care about this person as much as you say you do - you should tell her. It might make a difference. You never know what is going on in another person's mind. I think of myself as being somewhat like your young lady. Right now I know it would have made all the difference in the world to me had someone ever loved me or told me that they thought I was beautiful. So - Go for it!