confused33
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That is a very good straight forward thing to say.. Thank you
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He asked if I could come see him while she wasnt around so we can see if there is anything that will spark between us...
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So there isnt anything I can do to try and win him back. Hes said that he was only with this girl because he lost hope that I would ever come back.
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I really think its because I hurt him now he wants to hurt me. But he wrote me two letters after the initial contact telling me that he cant stop thinking about me. I believe him when he says this, because I think he is just scared to break it off with the girl that he dating now. I havent heard the best of things about her.
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Ive posted on here before but never really to ask this kind of advice.... I really need to know if there is anything I can do to try and win my Ex back. We dated for almost 3 years when we were younger. Then we grew up and remained friends for a while until I met someone else and that person made me stop being friends with my Ex. I ended up getting engaged and then ending my engagement but now I am single and enjoying life. Two months ago when I was having issues I decided to write my ex and he was super excited to hear from me but only because he was having issues with his girlfriend. But now that he is not having issues with his girlfriend he wants me to kinda sit on the back burner. I really care about him and I want advice on how to win him back... Is there anything i can do?
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I just turned 20 this past weekend. Nothing really has changed. Except my current boyfriend (soon to be fiancee) and he has a possible job opportunity in Las Vegas. We both want to move there really bad we actually just really want to be anywhere as long as we are together. I love him with all of my heart and I hate being away from him. I love waking up next to him and I love just being with him. He really takes care of me and I believe my life would be a lot better (get to sleep earlier) if we lived together. The hardest part is how do you tell your parents that you want to live with your boyfriend of 6 months?????Any ideas? I know that it is going to be really hard for me to tell my parents because I am the only child. Help with any advice please.... Thanks
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I just fought with my parents about my trip to Vegas with my boyfriend who is 6 years older than me. I love him to pieces. This is the hardest decision that I have ever had to make. They dont want me to grow up I swear. Im packing for an overnight ski trip with a couple of friends and I am really thinking about taking enough clothing to have for a few days. I really really want to get the hell out of this house. They make me mad, Ill always be there little girl but this is going over board. Im almost 20 I a good head on my shoulders and I have goals set no boy is going to ruin that for me yet they still dont want to accept the fact that I love him and I want to be with him and I want to go to Vegas with him to get away from here (work and school) for 3 days..... Help what should I do? Should I move in with the boyfriend? We are both ready for it I just hate my family not accepting me growing up.!
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Need to tell parents something..........
confused33 replied to confused33's topic in Parenting and Families
There are a few things they pay for: school, housing, car insurance, health insurance. That is it. I pay for everything else I need my car payments all of my everyday expenses. So I mean I hope she understands but I really dont know how they will take it mainly because we will be alone together for 3 days without any supervision. Oh yeah Vegas we both like it there a lot. I cant gamble but it is so gorgeous compared to Chicago at this time of the year also my gram lives down there and he has a cousin down there so we plan on doing some family visiting.... I cant wait to see my gram. -
Need to tell parents something..........
confused33 replied to confused33's topic in Parenting and Families
I know that I am an adult now, I guess I am just more nervous about it than anything but my boyfriend is 25 and Im almost 20....But I am still living under my parents roof going to a community school so they still arent used to a lot of things that could be happening in college..... -
I need to tell my mom tonight before it is too late. But my boyfried of 4 months and I are going to Vegas Jan. 2nd just to have a vacation by ourselves. We reallyneed to do this he is great a little older than me and we have gone on a vacation together before but the last time we had someone with us. So I really dont know how to break the news to her....Any ideas?
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Recently I went on a trip with my boyfriend and friend to Las Vegas (SIN CITY). Well one night we were all dressing up to go out on the town in some interesting apperal. Well I had a picture taken of my boyfriend kissing my [PROFANITY REMOVED BY MODERATOR]. I was wearing boyshorts that covered my butt and a skirt that he was lifting up. Well I had the pictures downstairs and I was going to hide that picture to make sure that no one else would see it in my family. Well turns out that my dad walked in and saw it laying on the desk. He wasnt too happy about it. I dont know what to do about the boyfriend or my dad. Im 19 so I mean Im an adult now but my dad has never really seen me do anything like that before. Also my boyfriend is really unhappy with me about even keeping the pictures because he tried to get the pictures from me. So its all my fault. I really need some helpful advice.
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This must be a guy thing because my last boyfriend would do the same thing my current is putting me through. For the past couple of days my boyfriend will act like hes getting really mad at me for something stupid like complaining, and then he will turn around and say im just joking with you. I confronted him about the joking around with me because it absolutely drives me nuts, so he told me that he would always make sure that he told me when he was joking around so that it would never get out of hand. This really isnt working for me though. I really want to get him to stop joking around with me. But when I asked him if he could stop joking like that he said he couldnt change who he is. Please help
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Erection and Kissing Poll (FOR GIRLS)
confused33 replied to ShroudedSorrow24's topic in Relationship Advice
Its a good thing because then you know hes in to you...Its just a way of saying hey you are a good kisser and I would eventually like to do more with you. -
Last night I was with the Filipino guy that I have recently put a post about in here. And we had a really good time together, we have been hanging out for the past week or so. Ive only been in a few long term relationships and in both (2) of those relationships sex wasnt an issue until later on. Well with this guy he was hinting towards certain things and I tried my hardest to not insult him and push him away. Hes 25 and im 19 I really injoy his company. But I really dont know if Im ready to sleep with him after all we arent even dating...Would this then be considered casual sex? I guess its a chioce that Im going to have to make on my own and see how comfortable I am with the situation. I just dont know how to bring this up to a guy that is a little older than me and almost expecting it after this short of knowing eachother. I guess just tell him to take it slow? I have no idea is that nerdy of me?
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Interracial: Race??? Parents Dont Approve
confused33 replied to confused33's topic in Relationship Advice
Thank you for the good advice, it made me mad to hear from my parents that they wouldnt approve of me dating someone that is filipino. Hes a great guy, and very nice and the past two weeks I have been happy because he is there and shows me that he cares. It makes me sick and mad at the same time to think that my parents are raciest in that way. Although I know their deep southern folk so hey maybe they shouldnt have raised me so open mindedly (if thats a word). Thanks for the advice....