Esprit

I've been on the pill for the past 6 months or so, and I have a very high sex drive.

I definitely know what you mean about that great feeling you get from being in a secure relationship that makes you feel so comfortable and at ease with yourself. It's wonderful, keep it up

I got really into the idea a while ago, read a bunch of articles and started trying it out --- and it worked. It was pretty crazy stuff. I'd be having a normal dream, but instead of feeling like I was watching it all happen, it was like living it, thinking it, being able to stop and think. It takes a bit to get in the right frame of mind before going to bed though.

Nah, I agree with the ladies, curly hair is super cute

Thanks kungfumaster =) What ever happened to your relationship? (Just out of curiosity). Well, no, he hadn't had these plans before we started the relationship. The opportunity just came up a few months ago when a friend of his told my boyfriend that he was going on this trip through some program, and that he was welcome to come. And this was something he just couldn't pass up. I don't blame him for wanting to travel -its wonderful, and I'd love to be able to go with him. But thats not an option. I don't really think there's anything suspicious going on. It's just the way things worked out. I know for sure that he'll want to continue the relationship. I don't know what I think though...he'll be gone for quite some time after all.

But what decision do *I* have, really? What choice do I have? I have to stay home. I'm at school. And he's leaving... If you meant it's my decision whether or not we keep it together, then I'm pretty sure that's not something I can decide right now. As it is, I guess I just have to try to enjoy it as much as possible. It's just so hard to think about...

I am absolutely madly in love with him, as he is with me. We've been together for 6 months now. He's leaving in 4, to go travelling accross Canada. He's not sure exactly how long he'll be gone, and even made a joke about never coming back. Of course, when he said that I told him it wasn't funny and he said "I know...I'm just trying really hard not to start crying right now". The thing is, when he first told me, I thought it was great that he'd be having this great experience. And then it sunk in. I'm going to lose the person I love more than anything I've ever known. I almost wish I didn't know, so that I didn't have to feel this pain for the next four months. And of course it'll get much worse once he's gone. We haven't yet talked about what we're going to do with the relationship - whether we'll stay together while he's gone or take a break. He'll be gone for at least 4 months... This is really painful. I can't imagine being without him..and I'm so scared that when he comes back it might not work out.

Hey Shabby, I'm sorry you're having such painful experiences. I would talk to a doctor or a gynocologist about the problem, because after three or four months probably isn't too good. Are you two having sex regularly, or just every few weeks? As for me personally, I never once experienced pain during sex, not even the first time...so I can't really help you there. Sorry. But I hope this is something that can be fixed. Good luck!

Hey congrats with your relationship! I'm glad you guys are so happy together. Make sure you remember that buying things for her will never mean as much as doing something for her or making her something meaningful yourself (such as Elfdrinkingtea suggested). Goodluck this weekend! Have fun

Well, I'd say I'd do pretty much anything for love. It's at the very top of my list, before everything else...though, I'm probably a little lovesick and a little crazy Ahh, but it's so wonderful. I agree with misery12, no relationship is perfect...but if there's a problem you help eachother through it. If you're having to sacrifice something, then make sure you believe it's worth it.

I second what tiger_lilies said. Try not to worry, it's just a thing girls do, I guess.

...Any speculations are appreciated. I'm really worried o.O

Have her take off her shirt and give her a niiiice long back rub, with kisses. Or you could lick her ears, give her a foot massage, kiss her neck...and the list goes on.

I have to disagree with the idea of never saying it first. That's ridiculous. If you love somebody, I mean if you truly, deeply love somebody, tell them. That in itself should be enough. LOVING them is what's wonderful, and should be wonderful regardless of whether or not they say it back. Never be afraid to say I love you if you know it's true. Otherwise you're making yourself afraid of it being unrequited, and that will make you afraid of loving them.

Last night my boyfriend and I were making love. It was amazing as always, but afterwards (after feeling no pain) there was a splotch of blood on the sheets. Now, it was definitely not my time of the month, and we have had sex several times before (I lost my virginity to him) so I don't see how it could be my hymen breaking. However, it was definitely the deepest he's ever gone in. Anyway, I'm confused. The bleeding must have happened all at once, because it had stopped by the time we had noticed. Again, nothing hurt or anything... If it's relevant, I'm on the pill, and I missed a pill the night before last night. I took it yesterday morning, and then yesterday's at the normal time. I've missed them before though and there was never spotting...also I'd think that spotting would happen at any given time, not right when we were having sex. Anybody know what this could be about???