My girlfriend broke up with me just before summer when school got out. We had been going out for almost a year and had our ups and downs like most couples (I know a year isn't that long). But I guess she had about enough of what I did and ended it. I was devastated and hoping that something would work out (I really cared about her). She said she wanted to be friends and not lose contact but I knew that wasn't going to happen. I called her a few weeks later and that was the last time as she didn't seem interested or was busy. It took me all summer to get over the fact that it was done and done. I tried my hardest to not let it get to me. Looks like I had dealt with it enough. I saw her screenname online when I was just about to start school (4 months later) and didn't say anything.
It was like I was moving on with my life. Out of the blue she IMs me and tells me if I hated her (I didn't), etc. We met up later and she asked about how I was and my life so far. I find out she is now dating and has a boyfriend (she met him like right after we broke up). I dont know why she did this. Everything would have been fine if she didn't talk to me. Now its like I'm back to when we just broke up. All the anger, frustration and unhappiness. I know we're aren't going to get back together, she seems happy now. She doesnt want to hang out or anything. If this is the case why did she even bother saying anything? She also said that she didnt want to hurt me in our conversation, but why tell me all this stuff. Its like a lie right to my face to get even. And if she did want to get back, then why tell me about her bf that she's been dating for 4 months. I know time will heal but this is like a step back. Thanks for any advise
