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  1. Hello, I live in NY and I am looking into taking a bartending course, does anyone know anygood one? Thanks
  2. Sorry to hear that. All you can do is be there for her and reassure her that you werent making her do anything she don't want to do but just to let her know how you feel. You guys has the rights to let each other know how you feel in a relationship. If you are fine waiting then let her know that. She probably feels hurt b/c she think that you are forcing her like the other jerk and those bad memories came back to her. Apologize to her for making her think that u were forcing her. Good luck.
  3. I can relate to you about being clingy. Personally, I think people get clingy because they are feeling attached to the other person. However most of the time we might not realize that the other person need to have their space. I think the next relationship you have, you should try to do things that does not always have to involve your bf, such as going out with your friends. Try to remember that being in a relationship doesnt mean that you guys dont have to go and be everywhere and do everything together. Do not call a person too much, they might get irritated. Communication is the key in having a relationship, you should ask your partner how they feel. Some people, believe it or not, dont mind the other person being clingy. Its good that you realized what your parents has is not defined in today's world but it does work for them. Some things works for people, some don't, you just got to find your match.
  4. Things can be very scary for a girl when she has no experience. I was kind of like your gf, I didnt know what to do and it made me uncomfortable but my bf is very patient. Have you talked to your gf about you feeling left out and let her understand that relationships are about give and take not just take. My advice is for you try to be very patient and go with her pace try not to pressure her, I know its hard... Have you ever guide her to explore your body? maybe you can say it makes you feel really good if she touch you but dont pressure her if she still reluctant. Maybe you can show her or guide her to giving yourself a hand job. She might need some assurance when she do things to you, so make sure u let her know that u appreciate it. When she gets confident, she might want to experiment her abilities and do a few tricks while giving you pleasure. My bf is a happier man now thanks to his guidance and patience I don't think you should have sex yet if one of you is still not sure. Do it when both of you are sure and remember to use protection. Also, sex is not just intercourse, if she thinks that other things are meaningless, you guys need to talk about it. Sex is plays a big role is a relationship, both partners has to be able to agree as to what is important to them. I hope my advice helps, good luck
  5. Hello, There are so many different types of condoms out on the market. Some are guarantee to increase pleasures such are the trojans for her you see in the comercials. Well my bf and I are very curious as to how these non regular looking comdoms works, we tried the one that is called "Inspiral" and that's suppose to be a really great pleasure booster but we did not find it pleasurable at all. I don't know if its b/c we didnt used it right or what but what I want to know is: Anyone that use these non regular looking comdoms, do u find it more pleasurable than regular? if so what brand? If anyone has any tips about using the "inspiral" condoms or any other comdoms similar please share. Thanks
  6. LOL! S4il, I am guessing you are single? Nice story. Imagine being a guy and you are about to make love to your gf. You start kissing her softly and making your way down... you suck her neck and make her moan.... moving down to kiss her breasts but as you are kissing them, you hear her stomach making unflattering noises along with the moan, but you manage to let it go.... you move further down to kiss her stomach, concentrating to make your way down town and give your gf the ulitimate bliss... just when you are about to kiss her other soft lips... you hear her belch out the biggest burp you have ever heard! Needless to say the mood was killed. hehe, excuse me, I had a heavy dinner that day. I cracked up right after wards and so did he. What a romantic story heh?
  7. Quick question, I just wanted to know when you go to the gyno, do they test you for all types of Sexual Transmitted Diseases? or do you have to request them? Also, I hear that you have to have a blood test to get tested for some STDs especially HIV, if so, can you request a blood test when u go visit a gyno or do u have to go to a regular PCP? I had this conversation with someone and I was surprised that the person said if u go to a gyno and dont request them to do all stds test on you, they are not going to do it.... so I am just confused... Please take the time to post if you can answer! Thanks
  8. Thanks for the post, my bf always wanted to have anal and this is another good reason to make him read why we shouldnt!
  9. Hello, I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years. We are in love with each other and knew it was going to the be a long distance relationship from the start. He attends college away from home so we only get to see each other for every other weekends or less and vacations. Well we always talked about how it would no longer be a long distance relationship when he graduates and move back home. We also talked about moving in together. He's is graduating in 2004 and I was excited about the idea of getting to see each other more often and hopefully get to see him everyday when we live together. However, my bf was telling me that he is seriously considering to go join the peace corps for the experience of living in an underdeveloped country, helping others and get to see what is its like to live in rural areas. If he does join the peace corps, he has to be away for 2 years. He told me that is not 100% sure because he don't know what will become of our relationship. I told him to really think about it and if that's what he wants to do then he should do it, and I dont want to be the only reason that held him back and he might regret not having the experience in the future. I also told him that I am not thrill about it but it is benefitial for him and it is a good cause. Even though we dont really have to deal with it until the time comes and he is 100% definate about joining the peace corps, it still makes me wonder about our relationship. Two years is a long time, even though he may get to come home once in a while, its going to be worst than the long distance relationship that we are currently in. It will also be a step back for our relationship, we are not going to be able to grow with one another in those two years, and worst, we might even grow apart. It makes me want to cry just thinking about it.... I mean I would like to travel and go help people with the person I love but I have too many responsibilities I have to take care of here unlike him. Sometimes I think that maybe it is not ment to be for us.... sometimes I think its another test to see how much our relationship can endure not being together like others.... sometimes I think maybe what they say its true, that first love are not the ones you end up with.... Then again, there are other couples that only get to see each other once a year for a few days like people in the army. All of you guys that are in long distance relationships, please take a few minutes to share your stories and how you are dealing with it. If anyone has any advice about my situation please post... What should I do if he actually decide to leave? .... sometimes a girl just need a little encouragement.... Thank you for all of you that stopped by to listen.
  10. Hi, I think that you need some closure on why he wanted to let you go in the first place. Have a talk about it with your bf, hopefully u will get the closure that u deserve and you can finally move on with your feelings either with him or without him. People make mistakes, he realized that he did, its up to u if u really are willing to give him a second chance to ur heart. Good luck
  11. Hello, I have been going out with my wonderful bf for 2.5 years. We are in a semi-long distanced relationship where we get to see each other only every other weekend or so. Everything is great in the relationship except our on going conflict. I usually get disappointed/upset/ bitter when he does not come to see me over the weekend. We never had an actual fight like most couples do because we are so laid back (especially him) and we like to talk things out rather than yell and get nothing productive out of it. However, I can't seem to control myself from feeling bitter towards him when he doesnt come see me when expected, I talk to him differently and give him a hard time when I shouldn't b/c he has many activities and work going on and sometimes he's just too tired. Sometimes I question myself if I am really inlove with him or its just love when I am not sure if I am really in love then why am I sometimes unhappy? Since he is my first everything and I mean everything, even relationship, how am I suppose to know if I am in love or just naieve about it since never experienced it before? I would really like to stop feeling bitter and feel disappointed but I dont know how, I have tried, the feelings keep on reoccurring. I misses him a great deal when he's not with me. I don't know what to do... my bf had said that he doesn't know how long we are going to last if this issue still occurs. Both of us would love for this to work out and hopefully live together one day but this is not healthy for our relationship. Please help me if you have any advice, I greatly appreciate it. Thanks, A bitter gf.
  12. I would like to apologize if my post offended anyone, I dont want to make a biased post but I was just commenting upon my experience in relationship and questioning it.... I know not everymen and women are the same, I was wrong to generalize.. sorry akatoro... Also, I dont know why your gf leave you, maybe she was scare of something real happening? Anyways I just wanted to say that there are women that would appreciate there bf telling them they love them everyday so dont think you did anything wrong by doing that. nat, I dont know why we are insecure but we need to not let it get over our heads as much... there are only a certain amount a person can take... our bfs loves and we love them... lets try and have faith and trust in our loves. Good luck with your relationship and spending a year with him you guys will learn a lot obout each other.
  13. thanks for your reply nat, yeah it totally sucks! I agree with you on the insucurity issue, I want my bf to tell me he loves me all the time and he doesnt need to hear it from me all the time. He even told me that he's not like me, and that I don't need to tell him I love him so often! Sometime I wish we are as simple minded as men are so that we dont have to think about things all the time or as my bf would say "over analyze" things until we are satisfy.
  14. From my experience of being in an on going 3 years relationship, I came to find that my bf doesnt seem to be as attached as I am to him. I always say that I think of him all time and misses him and want to be with him when we are apart (sometime we only see each other twice a month). Even though I know he loves me, he say that he doesnt think about me as often as I do to him. I dont know if its because we are not on the same level, or because I was never involve in a relationship before him or just that men can cut the emotion they dont want to feel out of their sytem. What are your views?
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