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  1. I think it is a bad sign that when two people have broken up and reconcillled more than once. Seriously once is bad enough. More than that and I think that both people have issues of some sort that need to be worked out individually before embarking on another relationship with anyone, especially the ex. For me, once is enough and it would take a special set of circumstances in order to reconcile. Quite honestly, I would have a very hard time trusting my ex enough and would probably be insecure in the relationship. That is not a good way to feel at all.
  2. nanana, You are close my heart girl and I'm trying in my own way to look after you. You would do the same for me. : )
  3. Not to be rude, but you have mentioned cases of very selfish dumpers coming back. If they left you, screwed around, are they seriously worth it? Does having these hedonsitic experiences somehow make them whole and perfect again? "Oh, honey, I didn't know what I had until I lost it." "Well my dear, then are you not too smart!" Come on!!!!! Feelings of wanting to reconcile oftentimes DO go away completely, especially after you move on and find someone better than your ex. Someone that is committed and doesn't need to feel the warm insides of another to be so.
  4. This NC is no longer a challenge for me. I have no desire to contact him, probably because I have no desire for being completely ignored. I'm happy to announce however that today completes four weeks of NC!
  5. Everytime I see a thread like this I'm going to remind everyone that the chances of successful reconciliations are slim. Sure you heard about so and so but if you do a search here for success stories from ENA posters, you are not going to find much. People say that is because people don't come back and post about it. I highly doubt that because that is the most important thing to share with other ENA posters that have gone with them through the breakup and the healing. I'm a hopeless romantic but I'm also a realist. You will be better off if you squash that hope you have like the pesty little bug that it is, the one that interferes with your healing the most and move on.
  6. When you broke up with me, all I could see where the mistakes that you made. I see now that I made them to... Thank you for the experience; we had some good times together. Thank you for what you taught me and what I learned about myself. Thank you for opening up my heart to possiblities. And last but not least, thank you for caring enough to let me go find someone that is 100% ready to fall in love and to spend the rest of their lives with me. You'll always have a piece of my heart. Goodbye M... uncomfynumb P.S. You will never fine another ass as fine and as sweet as mine. What are you freaking crazy?
  7. You know what is funny? The first time that I went out on a date with my ex, I was like "meh." I felt nothing for him except for friendship. He kept at it and we hung out a few more times after a couple of months had passed and my attraction grew. Well actually, it hit me like a ton of bricks. Sometimes you don't know if you have chemistry or not until you touch in a tender moment. That was what happened with me. And look where I am now! Glad that you are back in the game! I'm heading that direction my self!
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