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  1. water_baby
    believe it or not this all started in uni....i really thought that when i got there people would act like adults but instead i just received a lot of negative attention from girls...girls that dont even no me that i have never seen before hate me. i would feel a lot stronger if it wasn't so many people. i agree these girls are immature....i dont think there is anything wrong with me...i am a nice person but i have found it hard to trust people. i will try and take your advice...it is good advice ...hopefully i wont get my arse kicked as a result...hehehehehe
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    it would be so nice if i could be open like you but i cant because i hate being judged. i guess that is why you are called openminded..hehehe you seem to have a great outlook..you must be confident and mentally stronge i lack trust in people and thats where my problems stem from i guess.
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    the reason why i cant be myself around the friends i have is because they put me down a lot...they have spread rumours about me having had plastic surgery. i am the target of a lot of hatred...people have the wrong impression of me which makes me shy and unconfident...it makes me not want to share my feelings. i dont so much "act" as much as just being really quiet because of not wanting to give people even more to talk about me with. people judge me on the way i look or what they have heard instead of getting to know me. your lucky to have friends that care.
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    that is good advice...thank you. i also get on with boys better than girls. i think i need to be stronger and not care what people say...i should just be ME.
  5. water_baby
    To Openminded i dont understand when people don't want to listen to what is going on with their friends..you sound like a good friend. your friends should relaise that friendship is a give and take. the friends that i do have...i call them friends but they are not, use me to take the piss out of. i have told them about this but they don't see why i get offended even though i am the only one that gets the jibs. ever feel like you are acting coz people dont like the real you?
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    the first time i feel in love i felt just like this, still gives me chills when i read it..... ~COME WHAT MAY~ Never knew I could feel like this Like I've never seen the sky before I want to vanish inside your kiss Every day I Love You more and more Listen to my heart, can you hear it sing Telling me to give you everything Seasons may change, winter to spring But I Love You, until the end of time Come what may Come what may I will Love You Until my dying day Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place Suddenly it moves with such a perfect grace Suddenly my life doesn't seem such a waste It all revolves around you
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    hi i guess i can say i have always felt like this. i thought that these feelings would stop by the time i got to 22 years of age but i still feel the same. i guess i figured people get to an age when they jsut make friends and it is easy. all the way through my life i have had friends ..well, kinda. but i have never had people that i actually get on with and that understand me. Sometimes i feel really bad because i dont have people to share things with..noboday to confide with. sometimes i think i would do anything just to find one good friend..somebody that i can trust, have fun and just be ME with. i feel incomplete. i dont know why i dont seem to be able to make a conection with anybody but i can't. please say i am not alone?
  8. water_baby
    well in my situation it did work. me and my Bf broke up and i felt like my world had ended. i was a wreck but it was not too far gone. the reason i think me and him was able to make things work is we didn't forget what went wrong instead we attempted to fix it and we built on it and now we are stronger as a couple. this may not acount for all people but for me it is when the relationship feels tainted,that is when i feel it has to end. once one member of the relationship has done/acted/said something that has changed everything to the point were you are not able to see them in the same light it is very hard to fix. In the heat of the moment people can sometimes forgive somebody for something just to stop hurting and be back with them. when this happens people often change their minds about continuing the relationship because they get a chance to think and dwell.
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    this is how i see it. You call him after the breakup and call as "a friend" which may well be what you both said you wanted but to here your once girlfriend sound in "friend mode" and sounding "moved on" would be weird. he might have been just following suit, both of you doing the whole "just friends" thing. i can see why you thought it sounded insensitive because i would have been hurt too but that is what the situation is now. its been a week so stay cool, it sounds like you are doing well. maybe you should do the NC for a bit longer. keep me updated. good luck waterbaby
  10. water_baby
    thank you sooooo much. your post really got me thinking. you see...i have a really destructive streak when it comes to relationships and i sometimes do things i dont really want to ( such as break up with my bf). this time it back fired on me and we are over for good....i think...and i really needed some honest words to help me on my way. thanks a lot. waterbaby but i just have one question for you. if she came up to you today and asked you back would you decline? do you want to be with her again?
  11. water_baby
    i have to say i dont agree with the no contact rule. people no there partners (or should now them) better than most and i dont think the no contact rule works for everyone. i chose not to follow the "rules" and now i have my man and we are happier than ever.
  12. water_baby
    i know how you are feeling. i went through the same thing and it was killing me. i could not stop thinking about what he had done and we argued a lot as a result. the thing that matters is whether you can get past it and try and move on from it. it is natural to feel jealous...you love him but the realtionship is worth it you should try. i realised that the more good things we did togther the more what he did became the past. now i can think about it without getting mad ( there was a time when i never thought that was possible). it can work if you are willing to try. good luck waterbaby
  13. water_baby
    i hate feeling like this. i want to give up, i have no strength in me. i used to be able to control the things in my life but now i cant, i am 21 and feel i have no reason to live anymore. i have cracked, lost it all, all i do is wish my life away. at the moment everything in my life has gone wrong i feel alone and useless. i dont even like myself enough to help myself i just really need someone to talk to. i feel i am ready to end it all today, today feels right. i could not possibly get any lower than i am right now. if any body out there has the time to talk to me pls i need help right now. i am alone, i have nobody...i need a friend or just someone to listen to me. i know that when i feel this low i want to definitly . if you have the time pls PM me so that i can talk on to you on msn. even if you feel as low as i do i dont want to have not talked to anybody before i go. i want to feel human. i dont feel human apart from the pain. I HATE MYSELF.
  14. water_baby
    hey babe, i know exactly how you feel. i just broke up with my bf and it feels like it is killing me. my advice to you is go through whatever your feeling. it is like you have to go through all this pain in order to move on...i know it sounds harsh but it is beginning to work for me. i was feeling so low. like i couldnt get any lower...my friends had to constantly stop me from calling him...but this is something i need to do. my boyfriend told me the same thing and i know how that hurts, i dont want anybody else i want him.i even resorted to begging him but it is not worth it. i see that now. just hang in there and take things one day at a time. you will start to hit mile stones like...you didnt call him for five hours...you stoppped thinking about him for 2 hours...you went a day without crying etc. and over time these mile stones become bigger and more frequent.dont worry you will make it but it feels like it gets worse before it gets better.i am in the same situation so if you need to talk PM me. good luck
  15. water_baby
    thank you so much. i read what you wrote and it really put things into perspective. i have pm you. thanks a lot waterbaby
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