puny_guy

There is this girl a pal of mine said I should ask out because he said she seemed "excited" around me. I didn't know this girl that well in the first place, so when I asked her if she wants to meet up and do something together sometime soon I was surprised when she said "yeah ok" and gave me her phone number. So I call her up today and we arrange to go out and watch "Starsky and Hutch" then grab a few drinks afterwards. Here's the problem though, since I asked her out she has been a little more "quiet" around me. I don't like this, should I take it as a bad sign. So girls, do you go out with guys sometimes just because you feel sorry for them maybe? you don't want to let them down? I mean she doesn't avoid me or anything, it's just that since I asked her out, she's a little more quite. Why would that be?

Hey buddy, Well I DON'T know from personal experience. But I'd say that some of the best romantic relationships start off as friendships. As always though, there is a risk. It MAY make the friendship awkard if you were to get rejected, but it may not. Only you know her character better then we do and how strong your friendship is. If your having feelings for her, take the risk, don't bottle it up. Good luck.

Go up to her and say "Hi!" with a smile. "How are you?" and take it from there. Seriously dude there is no magic line out there that will instantly make her smitten with you. "Hi, I've noticed you around campus and just wanted to introduce myself" Put your hand on your chest and say your name... Take it from there. Seems hard I know. Really there is no easy way around it. If she isn't interested. Move onto another girl and try...

Dude, I've discovered that when chicks like you, you will know. If she really digged you she'd be all over you like a bad rash. If she doesn't dig you she'd keep her conversations(in real life) short, her voice monotone, and she won't use your name. Really, I take it your still in highschool? Highschool chicks are just a bunch of superficial beeps. You could be the dumbest most ignorant knuckle head in school but if you're hot, they will try to talk to you as much as possible and smile alot. Does she talk to you during school time? Or is she the type that likes you online and when she is with her "clique" she doesn't know your name?

177cm is not 6'8"! 6'8" is just over 201cm tall. If you were 6'8" and 60kg you would be way underweight. You're actually about 5'10". Even at 5'10" and 60kgs you are not overweight! If anything you need to stack on some more kilos! I took the time to calculate your body mass index and it comes up as 19.2, which is barely in the normal weight range. You're nearly underweight! Don't dwell on this, if anything, you're skinny.

Hi buddy, You're sort of in the same situation as an uncle of mine was. He had the right qualifications but had no on hand experience. It took him along time of applying time and time again before he finally got the job he wanted in. In the mean time he took a job as reserve stockhand at Myers to pay the bills. Perhaps you could take a job right now and keep on applying for you dream job. Persevere my friend. It takes time, but I assure you that you will get the job you're after if you keep on applying EVERYWHERE. I really wouldn't move to philly unless you have nothing to lose, because you might not get a job at philly anyway. Just hang in there! Good luck.

Hello Ladies and gentleman, A quick question here, if you take steroids(Avanar in particular) for say a 12 week cycle then stop the roids completely, will you keep your gains or go back to your former physique if you don't continue with the steroids? Thanks.

Thanks people, you gave me something to think about. Especially The Morrigan, No I wouldn't want to be anymore of an outcast and vilified. BuffaloSoldier, just want to clear something up though. You said I seem to have a hatred for "hot" girls. It's more or less I should say "conceited" girls. The reason I say hot is because most hot girls I know ARE conceited. It's TEENAGE girls that are mostly like this too. Another point I just wanted to add, I don't want to harm complete strangers just by the way they look. As The Morrigan said. I have talked to sooooooooo many of these girls and the majority are conceited. They look at you like you're some turd they stepped on the night before. These are the ones that drive me up the wall. The ones that look at you like your some sort of friggen' extra terrestrial. Thanks again folks, gave me something to dwell on.

I have no luck with women you see. The thing is lately I have been getting some joy by hurting women(teenage girls I mean, the conceited ones only I might add). Nothing extreme. Take for example when I have to shake they're hand, I'd squeeze extra hard so they get a startled look on their face and/or a small moan of pain from them. Or never get out of their way when they see me coming and all just barge through them and bump them with my shoulders. Or walking back and "accidentally" stomping on their feet. I once even tripped a stuck up cow down a flight of stairs(only like 4 steps) and she was nearly in tears... this made me feel excited. I'm constantly trying to think of ways to hurt them while making it all look accidental. The way I see it, these hot conceited girls have everything going for them, and if I could just cause them some pain.... well it feels good! Is something wrong with me? My friend seems to think so. I fear that if I were to get very drunk on a Saturday night and I'm left to my own devices I could bash a girl. What should I do? I mean what I'm doing now is nothing MAJOR, but if I continue down this path it may get me into trouble with the boys in blue. The way it is, these girls treat you like dirt, then why shouldn't I hurt them? Balance out the scales you see. Just don't want to get into trouble with the law.

Ok I just read your reply to akatoro. So you've talked to him and he doesn't open up and he's not interested in sex as much anymore. Hmmm sounds suspicious. I think it's time to get serious with him. Tell him it's really bothering you lately. Ask him why he isn't opening up to you anymore(I presume he used to open up to you?). If he still doesn't open up with you after you have serious talk with him, well then maybe it's time to give him his marching orders...

Don't go snooping through his private business lady. That's just plain wrong. What if he came into the room while you were searching through his emails? What would you say then? "Well I thought you might be cheating on me, so I was checking your emails to see if you have a mistress" While I may have never had a relationship with the opposite sex myself, I do that they're based on trust, where's yours gone? If it's bugging you so much just ask him what's on his mind, instead of going sherlock holmes style.

Well CustomX I read some previous post of yours where you said you broke up with your girlfriend. So you had a girlfriend so not every girl thinks your ugly then, do they. I got similar issues too, I'm only 5'8" and since the the end of november last year I joined a gym. I was 125lb when I started and now I'm 130lbs, slowly getting bigger. Would you like to improve your looks? Lose weight, get toned, gain mass... join a gym like I did. Lifting weight is also great when your full of anger and/or frustration, makes you workout harder. Maybe you should just put girls on the backburner for now and work on yourself like I'm doing. I don't bother with females these. You have to find your pleasures in life... Mine would have to be my friends, family and the gym. They're the only 3 things that stop me from going postal. I'm sure you have interests, if not, find some new hobbies! Just ignore the females buddy, they're not worth anything anyway.

Dude I take it your still highschool. I gotta disagree with what swingfox said here..."Rose, over the past few weeks (months) that I have started to know you, I really started to like you very much. You have add happiness to my life and you are the reason for smiling even more than I used to do." Can you imagine whipping that out to a highschool girl? I don't think so. No offense SwingFox but it sounds like you swiped that straight outta a Danielle Steel novel.... I suggest you hit the bottle before you approach her, since you seem to lose your nerve before the big crunch. Then just go up to her and say "hey how you doing? Wanna go out and grab a bite to eat sometime?" Look her in the eyes the whole time and don't let your voice go all shaky. Loud and clear.... Keep up the smiles the whole time. If she says yes, great, you are on your way to getting . If she says no or if she uses the common turn down..."I have a boyfriend already..."(chicks do this to let guys down easier and make it easier on themselves too) just walk off and say "yeah I doubt it.." or "yeah so what. I'm asking you out not him.." If anything with the last comment you'll get a priceless look on her face.

These young teenage chicks that have perfectly portioned bodies. I see alot of them eating whatever the hell they want and not exercising at all. Some of these beautiful teen girls I see at work have fat parents though... Do you think that most of these chicks in 10+ years time will get fat? I hope so.

Hi all, I'm curious to know if consuming inconsistent amounts of protein each day will hamper my efforts of getting big. What I mean is one-day I'll consume 120 grams of protein and then the next day maybe 170 grams then another day only 100 grams. To get big do you need to have a steady amount of protein each day? Also another question is can you have TOO much protein. I just bought myself some "Whey Protein Powder" which is like 94% pure protein. Is it wrong to have like 100 grams of this protein powder a day? Thanks