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  1. I know I should trust my wife on this, but my past experiences with another woman are seeping into my judgment. Further, my wife's family history of infidelity and her attitude toward it are worrying me. My wife and I have been together for going on seven years. She has never given me a reason to think she would cheat on me. But at the same time she has never had the opportunity. We had kids early in the relationship, she works full-time and I work full-time swing shift. Our schedule is hectic enough without finding time for infidelity. But yesterday she asked if I minded if she goes dancing with some friends. I didn't have a reservation until she said she would be going with people from an adjoining county that I do not know. She has contact with these people through work. I told her I want her to have fun and said I wanted her to go. However, it has been eating at me. Problem #1: I was in four-year relationship with a lot of infidelity by her that I ignored. She would go out with friends often, and this is when the cheating happened. Problem #2: My wife's mom has been married three times, with infidelity causing the end of at least one of the marriages. Problem #3: My wife feels infidelity is forgivable. I do not. I know I'm probably being paranoid and jealous. But I was hurt badly by my past relationship and infidelity does not seem to be the serious issue it should be to my wife. My inclination right now is to say nothing, let her go out and see what happens. I feel that is long as she comes home of her own accord at a reasonable time things will probably be OK. Also so long as these requests to go dancing or any other unusual socializing (we don't socialize much) don't begin happening too often, I can trust her. Anybody have any thoughts?
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