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  1. hollygolightly
    hey sweeite!! its not a nightmare!! It was an awakening!!! Turn this around fast and think positive!! He wasn't your soulmate, but believe that you needed to go through all this drama to make you a stronger and better person in the end. I know there is a gray cloud over your head right now, and only you can make it sunny again.
  2. hollygolightly
    There you go! Talking about stuff does make things seem a little better don't it?! And btw, its only natural to feel jelous of your ex new love interest. Just, don' obsess to much over it. This might hurt your current bf feelings.
  3. hollygolightly
    wow. well, the age difference is a bit long. I think you should listenn to the mom on this one. I don't know what state or country you are from, but in my state, having sex with someone younger than 18 is illegal. (that is of course if the two of you are under 18). How much in commom could a 20 yr old have with a 14 yr old? Sorry, dude, but this one is simple. Move on, forget about being friends. Just move on and find a fine mama your age. lots of luv!
  4. hollygolightly
    Babe, I know your pain all too well. But you already told her you loved her. And she said she loves you as a friend only. So what now? You have to do what will make you happy in the end. Sit her down, tell her all that you feel for her, tell her how much you think of her, and how you think the world of her. But also tell her how hard this is for you. And you have to decide if it is for the best for YOU to walk away from this. I'm not saying end the friendship, but if she can never love you like you love her, you will need to get over her. And you will need time apart from her to do that. If you two are that close, communication is the best thing for you right now. Lots of luck luv!
  5. hollygolightly
    Oh baby!! Don't change!!! I man that is NOT a minute man is a god!! But, if your situations is more severe where it takes you HOURS to cum, then I would suggest seeing a doctor. Just to be sure its not something medical. But if its normal, then I suggest MORE foreplay. Do what turns you own. She will go wild and will return the favor, hopefully making you cum faster.
  6. hollygolightly
    Well, the damage is done. You took a risk 10 years ago and you are realizing that it was not a good one. So what are you waitiing for? Another 10 years to pass you by? Your going to have to do alot of tough choices soon. I think you know what that is. You need to leave this marriage and seek what your heart desires. I know there are children involved, but you have to stay positive. If your husband feels the same as you, you two can have a healthy relationship after the divorce. Not all divorces are ugly. And think of your kids too? What kind of message are you setting for them? You are showing them that what you two have is what a marriage is!! I've been in there shoes, I know what is like to grow up in an environment where it was civil, but NO love. It has taken many many years to solve alot of issues that stemmed from that. Your heart is telling you something, and you realize it. Don't ignore it! Or you will wake up 30 years later, old and full of regrets. Lots of luck luv!
  7. hollygolightly
    I'm sorry your marriage ended. I'm sure you were a wonderful wife, and one day, he probably will regret it. But you can't make someone appreciate you. If he had all this outside help, what were their reasons for it? Just remember that, if he truly was a good man, he would have sought help with you. I mean you were his partner in life. Sounds to me like he did you a favor. You deserve someone that will stick it out through thick or thin. Hang in there, a new and great life is waiting for you as soon as this storm passes.
  8. hollygolightly
    There is nothing you can do now but learn from this. I was in your shoes once, I had this fabolous bf, which I treated very badly. After we broke up, I realized it and wanted him so badly. Of course he said not. It took me a LONG time to get over it, and what burn the most was my regrets. But, you have to search deep and learn and grow from it. Don't let the past repeat itself. If you are still this hung up on your last bf, its not fair for this new guy. You need to start thinking about him now. What do you want? Do you need sometime to get over the ex? If so, you gotta do the right thing with this new bf. If you are this hung out with your ex, the best thing to do is to keep a distance. You will never be over it until you had time to deal with it on your OWN. Lots of luck luv!
  9. hollygolightly
    It seems like the two of you have a very healthy sex life!! Bravo! So what's the deal girl? He tells you what turns him on!! Do it!! Now, you know how to do the strip dance!! It's all about confidence and adding in your own style! I would recommend that you buy VERY sexy lingerie, go all out. The shoes, the robe the sexy undies. I would say, tie him (gently) and kiss him all over. But don't touch him down and under just YET! Slowly do the strip thing....don't worry if your nervous or think you'll look like a total dork! He will love it! Remember, slowly teasing him will put him at a point of no return! So go get your groove on bebe!
  10. hollygolightly
    I say get a lawyer and sue her. Obviously she lied in court and you need to clear you name! I hope you see this as a lesson, and don't even try to contact her again. Let your lawyer do the talking, that's what they are paid for.
  11. hollygolightly
    Geezz that sucks bebe!! I say be gentleman, don't treat others badly because she treated you badly. And don't be blue...I'm sure you'll find someone new!! Women love men in uniform!!!
  12. hollygolightly
    get a lawyer and sue her. what state or country are you in babe? that was harsh punishment!
  13. hollygolightly
    Nothing kills romance faster than financial problems. But bebe, you are so right! You should be upset! Seeing how I am an accountant this is what I propose. Do a budget. Yes, I know! I know!! Boring!! But its simple....simply start with your TOTAL income you bring in month. Subtract from it all NECESSARY items, like rent, food expense, diapers, clothes (for the baby of course), etc. AFter that subtract out items that are of luxury. These items the two of you will need to decide what should go until you can meet your goal. Thats what a sacrifice is. She needs to understand that if you are willing to work towards making her dreams come true she needs to support your team effort and stick to it. If not, then, bye bye dream house. Best of luck babe!
  14. hollygolightly
    Hmm...this is tought one. Very limited info there. Besides the mom, why can't the two of you hook up? And why doens't the mom want you guys to date? I the reasons behind those questions are acceptable, I say, be friends. You never know what THAT could lead to later on in life.
  15. hollygolightly
    You are such a romantic bug!! I say, do it!! Write the letter!! Women love it!! I know cause I'm one! Listen, don't sweat it over the other guy. If she is interested in you, she will let you know. Don't pay attention to "pontential" competition. But one suggestion, before you write the letter, talk to her a little bit more, so that you have a better idea if she is digging you. Best of luck hon!!!
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