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yeah, goes towards her and tell her you're shy but you like her. she will be happy you're making the move despite your shyness, yet it doesn't mean she can fancy you as a bofriend. actually from my experience girls don't like shy guys because they like people they can admire from being confident. but some might find that cute. i don't know. i just don't know anything what's the point of trying to help others....

ok, well i fell in love with a girl over the internet, and it's the worse thing that happened to me, because i was so honest to her it hurt so much she wouldn't love me. i hope for you it can work, i think you just have to try. my advice is cut the relationship if you see the girl doesn't have the same feeling, because you might end up being her closest confident (internet is such a weird thing) and when you'll love her too much you can't imagine being not more than a ear for her she might freak out and you'll never heard from her again. i hate this world!

you can't controle your feelings, and obviously you're not in love with any of them. so just be honest with both and tell em you want to get to knpw them better but right now you like the two of them and don't feel like going for one and not the other because you LIKE them both. it's up to them to chose to remain your friend or try to know you better 'till you know if something more than friendship is involved. just be honest to them, sometimes you can't help to hurt people, but if yu're honest now they have time to imagine the worse situation as to suffer less if you don't love them.

as someone that attempted suicide i would say showing you care for this person is important, but don't act to diiferent than you use to, because she may think that you're just doing it because her suicide ade you feel bad about yourself. try to talk to her sometimes, to kow if her thoughts are not too dark, because if they are you have to try to show her where she is wrong. the most difficlt thing for me was to stop thinking dark, and i still do sometimes. after suicide hope is something hard to find... i still haven't found it

well why did she wait 13 years to tell that? anyway, personnally i don't think there's such thing as "the one for me". tere are people you can love and have great moments with, but i don't believe ou own them and they own you. we are born alone and stay one person all our life, it took me 21 yars to realise that even if i felt like i was just half of someone this feeling is bullshit. so maybe you'll have great time ithg that woman, maybe ou'll spend all your life with her, but in my opinion there is nothing more behind it. just enjoy life when you can is my new motto.

i'm sorry to tell you but being the second choice is never a good idea, try hard to think about what's better for yourself in the end, if he comes to you because they broke up it's not good for you and your self esteem. you think you need him now, but if you work hard as to make him a less important part in your life. it's sad, but that's what is best for you. because you fl like crap because of him not loving you as much as you love him, i felt the same, it's nonsense and dangerous.

from my exerience, some girl seem to be so shy as not wanting to kiss or hold hands, and i thought it was because they were scared of something, but actually it depends of the guy they are with. i hope i'm wrong for you, but maybe she's not attracted by you physically. or maybe there's something mre behi,nd that, all you have to do is ask her about it, or you'll never know...

hey, don't do something stupid. i have been in the same situation/feelings/self hatred thing than you, i am still there sometimes, but killing yourself is no soltion, we're probably all on earth by chance, but it's not a reason to prevent ourselves to enjoy great things in life, you will have ghapineess too, ou are young, i'm 21, email me if you want, maybe i can help you to go beyong this terrible moment, i wish i can, i think i can make you see life with new yes. i've been as down as you are now, and it's not the end believe me. you can always get more sad, but you can also be happy. i've seen people with worse lives than us be happy, so hold on please!

first i want to say it's great to see girls can be the first to ask when they see the guy is shy, i've been a shy person for a long time, and as i'm a guy i was always the one supposed to do the first step. i never did it until i met someone i really loved more than anything and didn't want to miss because i was shy, but she wasn't interrested unfortunately. now i wish i had asked every girl i liked out even if it was not seriuos because once i'd met the good one i would have been experienced enough not to look so desperate to her. anyway, Charmed is right, ask him in person to see how he reacts. asking a girl out through mail or letter never worked for me. i think it's strange he doesn't answer, because i am shy but if a girl was interrested in me and i knew it i would talk to her. i was shy because i feared i would ger rejected, but i he knows you like him he doesn't fear that. maybe he is not interrested in dating you and is afraid to make you sad, have you thought about that? just ask him in person and let us know good luck, don't be shy

if you fancy guys i guess your bi, if you don't fancy girls, then your gay, but that's not a bad thing, just enjoy life being who you are, don't think too much about it.

well i was in this situation, more complicated for me though. anyway y advice would be not preventing her to go to him. in my case i helped the girl to get with my friend, and i wouldn't advise you to do that either, because if you really feel like you need this girl it will hurt a great deal. i've never sufferd that much. just work on yourself to be less shy and more confident, and make sure to work on yourself 'till you understand your love for her is not the most important thing and you have a life on your own anyway, so that if she goes to your friend you won't get too hurt. plus there is less chance she will come to you if she feels like you desperately need her, if you feel happy with who you are, she will more attracted by you, though love isn't something we can controle, we have to understdnt that too...

yeah take that pill or you may have a strange converstation in the future. Kid - mom, how did you and dad make me? You - well sweetie, your daddy droped the condom in me, and 9 months later you came out of me with a condom hat. happy end

yeah, mak sure to tel it to your genicologist, just in case...

just don't have too many goals at a time. finding an activity is great, think about the things you enjoy the most in arts, sports etc... and choose an activity you could practice and learn a lot about yourself there. if there is other people involved in that activity it will be even better.

damned, i never heard such thing?? are you sure he used a condom, did you actually see him put one on?