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Hello all, I have been given fantastic advice on here over the past few months and have managed to use a fair bit of it. I'm a little concerned my mental health is struggling though now as I seem to have had a return of how I was feeling...
Posted in Emotions and Feelings by Rb1980
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I broke up with my ex a week ago and moved out from his place. We were constantly arguing and I said our relationship was toxic, and clearly not going to change. There were good moments too in between these arguments. Even weeks of no arguing, but I...
Posted in Breaking Up Advice by Roadtoheal
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So, I’ve known this guy for awhile, we’ve been on 3 dates, all were at his place. The last date I had with him we were making out, and I gave him a handjob. He decided on standing up instead. So I did, I stopped. Then he looked down at himself...
Posted in Dating Advice by Sparklystars
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Hello. I wanted to make this thread, partly for myself to put words down about how I feel, and to hear others opinions if they have any. I have lived together with my girlfriend in an apartment for the last ~9 months. She is going into her last...
Posted in Breaking Up Advice by lightwelter
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Hi guys. Hope everyone is doing well. Having some coffee this Saturday morning and just feeling the weight of the world or maybe just the weight of my choices and life... Needing to vent and if you have any new perspective or advice, it's welcome. ...
Posted in Friendship and Friends by Lambert
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Gf breaks up with me then on the same week goes on a camping trip with another dude. Comes back and starts crying on the phone how lousy the date was and i blow up on her, because shes actually crying about the guy rejecting her. Because this also...
Posted in Breaking Up Advice by Jinstron
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So I gradually arranged a date with this girl that I knew. It really came out of nowhere as we started out as coworkers but recently started talking and found out our personalities clicked very well and it took off from there. However I texted her...
Posted in Dating Advice by stuka80
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You can read my other threads “struggling“ for the details. Summary is I broke it off. One week ago. Five year relationship that I considered toxic. I have to see this through and not go after her. I am so completely shattered and destroyed...
Posted in Healing After Break Up or Divorce by Destroyed 33
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My boyfriend and I had a huge fight weeks ago and it was painful for both of us, especially me. Lets just say he said some things to me that are too harsh in our native tongue. We made amends afterwards and gave each other some space and had some...
Posted in Dating Advice by seanelly
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I am Male and married and I love my wife. A couple months ago a girl was hired in a different department. Our departments work closely together so we see each other frequently. We started out talking on the phone about work but now we talk on the...
Posted in Relationship Advice by TMurphy
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I completely love my boyfriend. I’m extremely loyal and I’ve lived through a lot. I’m a disabled army veteran. I’m a Christian, but not a holy roller. I’ve been divorced almost 12 years. I met a “Christian man” with 3 incredible...
Posted in Dating Advice by ValorAttempt
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(24F) (33M) So this guy and I first started talking in February this year. We probably see each other once a week or unfortunately once every 2 weeks with his work. He told me he is looking for something serious and wants to settle down. We both say...
Posted in Dating Advice by dustycloud
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I have worked the whole time at the same job and just got a promotion as well. He keeps insisting he’s going to get a job and does sometimes but it never lasts more than a few weeks until he...
Posted in Relationship Advice by senick
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I'm 3,5 months no contact with my ex. 3 days ago her daughter sent me a friend request on Facebook and right after she canceled it. I sent a friend request back to her and she accepted it. Yesterday I posted a pic of me at the gym. And in the...
Posted in Getting Back Together by RicBoy
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My ex and I dated for 8 months we broke up 2 months ago, we saw each other a few times during the breakup and in the last month hung out 3 times for a few days in a row and were like a couple. She recently told me that she loves me so much and she...
Posted in Getting Back Together by Rayray4567
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Long story short, I went to a public event early 2014 where I met a bunch of people that would turn out to be a very dear group of friends for me. Among them was a guy that I've considered attractive from the start. We didn't talk one on one all that...
Posted in Conversational Tips by FrozenMoon
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In April 2019 my 8 year relationship came to an end. Burnt beyond all repair. I moved in with my mother sleeping in a small box room in a single bed, sometimes with my small daughter. One month later i had my own place and things began looking up. I...
Posted in Emotions and Feelings by lonewolf1991
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A little follow up to my original thread “Struggling”. For the sake of processing in more detail and logging my thoughts: 5 years. I just broke it off... When I met her I was as close to being my “best self” as I ever was in my life....
Posted in Healing After Break Up or Divorce by Destroyed 33
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Hi there, New to this forum, but I'll jump right into it. My soon to be sister-in-law and I do not have the best relationship to say the least, that is she'd never divulge what I know. To state some back story, I've done a lot to try and be a good...
Posted in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships by JackEL
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Long story short. Married 35 years. Amazing, well-adjusted kids. Husband is a narcissist. Everything has always revolved around him. He takes 6 week solo vacations every year to hint, fish, and backpack. I love the outdoors, but don't have desire to...
Posted in Relationship Advice by Cheryl0108
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