The way you are talking and describing the situation doesn't seem like there are many positives. Based off this I would say maybe it's time to leave...
She shouldn't have to qualify why she's not wearing the ring. Again, if you've got other causes for concern which are actually attributable, address...
God I hope I can write one of these stories in a few years. I’m currently at “okey, I might survive this”, but still “the sun will never really shine...
I had to tell a friend who was having trouble in her marriage "Look, I don't know if you're willing, but it seems to me you might want to look at how...