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Don't make his lack of texts while his dad is in the hospital about you. I think he's got a lot on his mind. And you've been dating him for 30 days....

Holy cow, you seriously need to back off! His father is in the hospital, do you not get that he is upset and probably scared that his dad is sick? ...

Yes slow odwn, this guy is a stranger. You dont know him at all. People lie all the time. How to have a good relationship: be honest dont lie...

I agree... isn't it that way sometimes though. All very comical in the big picture etc. You seem to have a great energy and perspective about things....

The OP hasn’t logged on in 3 years.

I wonder.... what happened?! Did you give him the card? What was the result? I found this thread because I am planning te same. He looks shy also but...

Ok, so let's go with this is real and she truly does love you and wants to spend her life with you. Will you move to her or will she move to you?

I don't think he's interested in you at all unfortunately. Or you're not compatible together. It's an indirect (and rude) way of telling you that,...

Are you confused about your bestie being jealous? Or about hookup boy making passes at you? I think you should ask yourself what YOU are happy...

I would give it some time. He has a lot on his plate. I also think you should allow him to reach out.

Totally agree.

Are you still in contact with this man? I did some reading. I see that you were. You must block him on everything. You need to move forward.

Thanks for your message! Yah, I agree with you. Maybe the holiday season isn't the best time to gauge a person's interest. I'll see if he wants to...

That would be "Catfeeder," her advice is top of the line.

I agree with the point from RayRay in the previous page. He's not your friend. I'd stop with the well wishes and any communication you have with this...

LOL! Yes, that's exactly right! It's fun to daydream sometimes - but I can't let that daydreaming cloud my vision of what reality is when presented...

Yes, and most people grow up, and learn common courtesy. Looks like he missed the boat there. Either way, it's not your job to raise this schmuck.

I was hoping you'd reply! Short and to the point. Yep. I figured if he was interested, he'd take the opportunity to work with me one on one which is...

You get defensive really easily...Perhaps work on that.

Wow slow down,you've only met him yesterday. He's a complete stranger and you're coming off very intense o_o.

You met a stranger online yesterday and you are thinking today that "yes, I can see a relationship with this guy. this guy who I have no idea is real...

Honestly, i agree with backing off a bit. stop trying to reassure him and stop massaging the situation. Can he tell you why it happened/why he chose...

Counseling might help him. He needs to first be able to forgive himself and figure out what is the underlying cause for cheating. So he can recognize...

Thanks for the help, everyone! I sent a message per @Cherylyn's and @LootieTootie's suggestion. And I agree with you @SarahLancaster. @Rose Mosse...

My number one tip is don't think too much about the future. This includes both types of looking at the future: thinking things will be amazing, or...

Let it go. This guy is in no place to entertain or pursue you. His dad is ill and in the hospital and his lack of interest should be obvious that...

I guess whats not clear to me is if he is angry - raising his voice, stomping about or is simply saying "i feel angry about..." I its the former -...

Sorry for the late reply Jibralta. I actually did a class this week and I really enjoyed it so I think I'll be doing it every week. On a...

His dad is in the hospital. You are being selfish