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Are they the child's mother and her new bf or the other ex and her new bf? Whatever they are and wherever you saw them, it doesn't sound like you and...

Have you seen a therapist? I think it's very important to find a way to feel positive about life, yourself, the world, etc. and not put your focus...

Well, maybe you could alter your perception of him. Maybe get him to switch to bacon and eggs. I see some people like this. I always think...

I hope you realize how inconsiderate this line of thinking is. I'll come at you from a different perspective because I'm the second wife. Be fair to...

Context matters. None of your business in this case and that's why you're confused. Leave it to them and stop snooping. The messages weren't directed...

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I dated a cereal dater. On the fourth date I invited him to my place to hang out after -no, not for sex at all -he knew that! He walked in, looked...

I DO believe you are smart to consider it being a red flag.

Now, I'm not suggesting people run to the alter at 6 months. I would recommend waiting a couple years to get married. But love? - Like I said, if...

Clearly. ..I've been through all the stages after being with the same great guy for 40 + years of marital bliss. At three months I knew I was...

- Yup. You have to have compatibility AND love. Just because they look like a king on paper does nothing for the heart. Obviously you don't love...

They aren’t messages I’ve received. Messages I’ve seen between a new couple. Maybe I’ve never felt like that, but I’m pretty sure it’s over...

Thanks. You may be right in that perhaps I should get my divorce completely finished before moving on to dating. I guess in my mind I don't see it as...

^^^^^^^I'm not saying that you can't fall a little deeper in the years to come......but basically, if you have a really good relationship, you should...

Well, unfortunately, when in a relationship, he should not talk about other woman like that. I hope you can get over it. If it helps, what counts...

Oh please. Just stop with your dramatics, block and delete him and in three weeks you'll wonder what all the fuss was about. You knew him short...

lol... Not necessarily. You say that like it's the only answer. You can certainly know you are in lust with someone at the three month mark but...

But you are without him now. He is not with you . And you are alive and surviving well enough to write about it coherently. I would allow those...

Long distance relationships are hard. Most don't work out.

I can't be without him...

Lol, if everything goes just right, it only takes a couple of months to fall in love. If you are dating a person longer than that and it's not...

Bring home a one nighter and bang loudly so your "ex" hears?

Op: Why are you so frequently having angsty feelings about your relationship? Clearly you are not very confident that he loves you so either you are...

I'm neutral. It depends on what kind of person the person saying it is (ie love languages for each individual). Some people are wordy and like...

I would be afraid of anyone that put that much pressure on me to reciprocate his feelings. Six months? Ya... kinda psycho IMO.

I wouldn't be so trusting that what he says is true with regards to his marital status. It isn't a matter of not being ready for a relationship but...