Jealousy Tip: Be a little extra flirty If a woman wants to be constantly in demand, she must always play the role of the Coquette. In fact, Coquette actually means “a woman who flirts.” ALL of the most desirable women flirt a little bit. Never disrespectful to their partners, but just enough to remind him that you’ve got options. For example, the next time you meet up with some friends, make sure you give the guy friends a little extra hug. Maybe even a peck on the cheek.