Some women will never find healthy love because of their victim mentality. Many women are still single because of this. They are too busy seeking to be understood than to understand their issues in relationships and love. Too many people, men and women alike are avoiding taking responsibility over their lives and situations. They let people treat them any kind of way. They take mess of of people and wonder why their unhappy and fail in their relationships. If they do have relationships, those relationships are often toxic and unhealthy. Instead of looking inside themselves they look outward to blame some outside source for their unfortunate circumstances. They rather be understood and sympathized with.