A lot of women ask me about the no contact method, or going no contact on a guy in order to get him to change the way he treats them. This is often a mistake. Even in the cases where going no contact is appropriate, women often make the mistake of doing it wrong. The No contact rule. Does it really work and do guys give a crap?
If you've ever wondered why your ex goes silent after a positive interaction, you may not know about the strange phenomenon known as a "positive pullback." If you are unaware of this, you may find it very confusing and even frustrating. After all, why would they have such a great connection with you, only to pull back and close off emotionally? If you understand why your ex is behaving this way, it can clear up a lot of confusion... And it really has to do with how your ex is thinking about you.
What does it take to get your ex back?
When it comes to saving your relationship or getting your ex back, the main thing that you want to do is to look at the success triggers that you have within your control to set you up to succeed.
In learning how to bring your ex back into your life, you must start with your way of being.
That is to say, how are you acting and behaving, and what sort of energy you are bringing to the connection.
If you are not clear on this and if your w
First thing's first, if you're looking to learn how to save a relationship after a breakup or a big fight that is getting close to a breakup, then it's important to know that you probably CAN do this. I know that there are a lot of people who doubt if it is even possible to save a relationship, but I can tell you that you absolutely CAN do this. I've helped countless people do this over the years and this is something you can do too. However, it's going to take a few important steps to make this
In this video I will share with you 10 things or 10 reasons why men come back. Why men come back. What type of intentions does he have if he is coming back . Do you know is he coming back because he wants you back or is he coming back for an ego stroke?
In this video Clay Andrews discusses the primary cause of a lack of intimacy between you and your ex. There is a lot of advice out there that will tell you that you need to put on an act or play hard to get with your ex in order to get them to like you. However, how are they supposed to actually connect with you and feel an intimate connection if you’re not being honest and transparent yourself? More so, why would they be open and honest with you if you’re putting on an act and pretending to be
Surviving and maintaining the no contact rule to take your power back so you can attract better and reach your full potential. In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from a viewer who went through a bad breakup about a year ago. He says that his ex broke his heart into pieces and my work helped him get through a very dark time. He says she is stalking his social media and calls from different numbers, but he has not given into weakness or the urges to let her back int
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I went through something very very similar to what you had to experience. Just somehow worse. Yes, it can be worse. It's been almost 2 years and I am in a much better place. I thought I am... However recently I have had a significant pull back. My symptoms are idealization of the person who used to be my husband for almost 20 years, flashbacks of happy moments, happy dreams, thoughts that I will never meet anyone as good as he was and a huge sense of guilt. Sometimes unbearably huge. For that I
After a breakup, so much of what people often do actually pushes their ex away. Tips that well-intentioned loved ones suggest to us to get an ex back or re-attract them most often do the very opposite. Relationship expert Coach Lee shares psychological principles that can help you re-attract your ex after they broke up with you.
Why Kim Feels Like a Failure (and Why It Matters to US)//The Kim and Kanye divorce is something that many think is their business but there is a reason why the divorce rate is so high and there is a reason why our society continues to feel the way it does about relationships, narcissists, and more. Why do we feel we need to stay in relationships that don't serve us? Kim's feeling of failure is so much deeper that just HER feeling of failure. I am diving deep into all of that in this video. Watch
Have you tried doing the no contact rule that everyone's buzzing about? Have you been in contact with your ex since then? How was your interaction then? In this episode, relationship expert, Clay Andrews, talks about the best possible approach to your ex after meeting up with them.
We believe that marriages can be strong, healthy mature and loving. But it takes two to make it that way. One person can kill that off. And we also recognize that not all marriages are going to stay together, and some need to end as well. The choice to divorce in our opinion is not one the therapist makes, but must be the choice of the individuals in the marriage. Dr. Rick helps unpack things to consider before you choose divorce.