Embarking upon a romantic relationship is a journey filled with paradoxes. It’s hard enough to find someone whose energy is open and inviting, let alone when you realize they are shy. Trying to pursue a shy man can be a mystery for many women. How should you break the wall between you and him? Is there light at the end of the tunnel? Read on to discover the answers to your questions.
First things first, gaining the trust of a shy man isn’t an easy task. He is probably used to keeping people away and finds comfort in his solitude. Before you invest too much of your energy, take some time to assess if the situation is worth your while. Does he show any signs that you two may have a mutual connection? The key here is to go slow, don’t assume or push him into doing something he isn't comfortable with.
Once you gain an inkling he might reciprocate your feelings, it’s time to start making your moves. While talking to him in person may be too daunting for a shy guy, communication through text messages and phone calls can be an effective way to start a conversation. Here, you can take the initiative and throw out the first line. Choose topics you are both interested in, talk about the day-to-day life and share stories about your favorite films. This is the perfect opportunity for you to get to know more about him, as well as make him feel at ease.
Moreover, little events like throwing a surprise party or taking him on a short weekend trip will boost his confidence and help break down the wall between you two. Take off the pressure of having a “perfect date” and instead opt for a few lowkey hangouts in familiar places. Maybe a movie night or a visit to the local park might be the best start. A few drinks together would be another great way to encourage conversations and help him come out of his shell.
If none of the former actions works, try to understand why he tends to shy away from socialization. Usually, shyness is a result of past traumatic experiences, so you might want to step up your game and pay more attention to what he is comfortable and uncomfortable with. Have a lengthy conversation about his likes and dislikes, as well as his goals in life. Show him that you really care about his feelings and offer solutions for his fear.
At last, shy guys can be the most romantic partners yet. They’re more likely to appreciate small gestures you make for them and know how to return the favor. As long as you take the time to break the walls and recognize his needs, a shy man can become your best friend or better yet, your soulmate. So do not give up, roll your sleeves up, put on your detective’s hat and unveil the mysteries of a shy man.
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