Love, for many people, is a complex puzzle. Finding the one person with whom we share a powerful connection that lasts is a challenge, and often requires a lot of dedication and effort. When you find someone you want to connect with, it can take it to the next level — and that requires you to put in even more work. It can be nerve-wracking to pursue a girl that you like, and you may feel overwhelmed or lost while trying to win her affection. Here's some advice to help get the girl you want — and keep her.
First and foremost, remember to be yourself. While it's important to make an effort to understand her and her likes, don't forget your own unique personality. Genuinely listen to what she has to say and be curious; women love a good listener. If you're genuine and authentic, it'll create a lasting bond.
Take the time to really get to know her. Knowledge of her life can come in handy when it comes to date ideas or any conversations you may have. You still need to keep up an interesting conversation between the both of you, so you want to get to know her well enough so you both always have something to discuss.
Picking activities that you can both enjoy can be great for building a strong connection with her. Doing activities together allows the both of you to discover the other's personality in a fun way. Whether it be going to the movies, playing video games, or going for a walk in the night sky, choose activities where you both can enjoy each other's company and get to know each other better.
Compliment her authentically to let her know that you appreciate her more than anything else. Validate her achievements, as well as her beauty. Make sure to support her dreams and goals and never shame her no matter what. A relationship without trust and respect will not last. Also, it's okay to surprise her! If you two already had plans together, why not buy her flowers or take her out to dinner? A little surprise every now and then will show her how much you care.
Taking the initiative to build a strong and genuine relationship with her is not an easy task, but it's definitely worth it. Be patient and be willing to show her love and care despite certain setbacks. Do the right thing, stay true to yourself and the person you are attracted to, and eventually you'll succeed. Love is a unique and challenging emotion, so remember to stay vulnerable—it's the best way to find everlasting love.
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