8 Things Tall Guys Should Know (Dating Short Girls)

Key Takeaways:

• Bending down becomes routine
• Oversized clothes aren't just loose
• We embrace our height, trust us
• High heels are love-hate essentials
• We're short but definitely mighty

When it comes to tall men and short women dating, there's a whole world of hilarious and endearing dynamics that arise. These relationships have sparked discussions around height differences, gender roles, and the psychological quirks that come into play. If you're a tall man who finds himself captivated by a short woman, buckle up. We'll dive into everything you should be aware of to keep your connection thriving—and yes, your knees might need a little extra care.

Well, here are eight things that you might want to be aware of before (and during and after) your time spent dating short girls!

Dating a short girl as a tall guy isn't just about enjoying the adorable height difference that everyone comments on. There are some real, funny, and sometimes challenging aspects that we experience together. But let's face it, the quirks are what make it all worthwhile.

1. Bending over will become your everyday art form.

Prepare for a lot of stretching and bending if you're a tall man with a short woman. Whether it's leaning down for a kiss or bending over to hear something she says in a noisy crowd, your back will get a workout. Psychologically, height differences can subconsciously make us adjust our posture and movements more frequently than we realize, according to body language expert Joe Navarro. This habit could result in lower back strain—yup, love hurts.

Think of it this way: you'll unintentionally become more flexible. And hey, yoga classes together could become a romantic and practical solution.

2. Your oversized clothes look massive on us.

Let's address the hilarity of your oversized hoodies and shirts on our petite frames. We drown in them! It's endearing but also a little comedic when your hoodie transforms into a makeshift dress. In terms of relationship dynamics, sharing clothes might sound romantic, but for short women, we know that we'll practically disappear in your giant wardrobe.

However, there's a silver lining. It creates those adorable, comfy moments where she wraps herself up in your clothes and says it smells like you. It's a paradox of looking ridiculous yet feeling close and connected.

3. We know we're short, no need for reminders.

Trust us, short women are fully aware of their height difference when dating a tall man. We've been reminded of it all our lives. The last thing we want is for it to be brought up every time we're out together. According to psychologist Dr. Susan Krauss Whitbourne, repetitive comments about physical traits can unconsciously chip away at one's self-esteem.

While a playful joke now and then is fine, constantly highlighting our height can get old fast. So let's enjoy our differences without making them the centerpiece of our interactions.

4. High heels: Love them, hate them, wear them anyway.

High heels are a love-hate relationship for short women. We complain about how uncomfortable they are, yet we still wear them, especially when standing beside our tall man. Why? Sometimes we want to feel taller and enjoy that elegant, confident feeling that comes with a few extra inches. But don't mistake this for insecurity.

It's a complex balance of fashion, confidence, and the subtle desire to bridge the gap (literally) between us. And when we do wear them, don't be surprised if we make you carry us at the end of the night because, let's face it, those shoes aren't forgiving.

5. We'll need a boost for high shelves.

Reaching for anything on a high shelf? That's where the tall man comes in. We'll either get creative by climbing onto the counter (hey, survival instincts) or call for your help. For short women, it's a lifelong challenge, and having someone tall around feels like a blessing and a curse. On one hand, we love it when you offer to help. On the other, it can make us feel just a bit more aware of how far away those upper cabinets are.

So, when we ask for a hand, understand it's not a big deal. Just part of life when height is not on our side. And if you've ever felt that subtle, unconscious boost of satisfaction for being needed, you're not alone. Human connection often revolves around offering support—both literal and figurative.

6. Ask before picking us up. Really.

Look, we get it. We're small and sometimes seem easy to pick up. But please, don't swoop in like you're in a rom-com and lift us off the ground unless we've given the green light. For some, being picked up triggers a sense of vulnerability, and not everyone finds it romantic.

Besides, there's an element of bodily autonomy here. No matter how strong or tall you are, respect goes both ways. If she's okay with it, that's different—just make sure you have her permission.

7. Never assume our age based on height.

Here's one that can truly get under our skin. Being short often comes with the unfortunate reality of being mistaken for much younger. It's not flattering when you assume we're in our teens, especially if we're well into adulthood. Age is more than appearance; it's experience, wisdom, and maturity.

Studies show that people often unconsciously associate height with age and authority. While it's a subconscious bias, being mindful goes a long way. Treat short women with the respect they deserve, and don't let assumptions guide your interactions.

8. We may be small, but we're fierce.

Don't underestimate us just because we're small. There's a reason people say, “Great things come in small packages.” We might be petite, but our spirits are strong, and we're often tougher than we look. Short women have spent years making up for height with resilience, and it shows.

When you date a short woman, know that she's got layers of strength and determination. In fact, our height has given us the grit to prove ourselves in a world that often underestimates us.

Recommended Resources

• "The Body Language of Love" by Joe Navarro
• "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain
• "The Confidence Code" by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman