Confused and depressed how do I react to this.

dave795 · 10-24-2004, 05:05 PM

Hey thanks for everyones's insight. This is a great forum.

johnagent1911 · 10-24-2004, 05:28 PM

Sorry man but this is MAJOR red flags on why not to date her... She lost TRUST for YOU? When she went off and "pecked" some guy? I would personally not be calling this girl EVER again.

Cecelius · 10-25-2004, 10:22 AM

Agreed. You sound like a good guy, so tell her you want to date her but not be exclusive since it seems like she's not really grown up enough to be in that kind of relationship.

Then go find a girl who has her ego and her lips under control.

OceanEyes · 10-25-2004, 03:57 PM

Dave - this girl sounds nuts. You haven't even known each other for very long, and have only been exclusive for a couple of weeks. To actually get so upset about not being able to get ahold of you for a couple of hours, and actually assume you were with another woman?

I'm sorry to sound so negative, but I see the signs of a woman who will turn out to be one scary broad - calling you obssessively, being overly inquisitive about your wereabouts, possessiveness, jealousy. She's telling you that you've "lost her trust", but I see absolutely no reason for this to be justified. I think that if she was level-headed and reasonable in the first place, she would have assumed that there was a logical explanation the first, or even the second, time you didn't pick up your cell.

I've seen women like this Dave. Get away while you can or you're going to be kept on a very short leash.

dave795 · 10-27-2004, 06:26 PM

Thanks

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dave795 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 3	Confused and depressed how do I react to this. Hey thanks for everyones's insight. This is a great forum.

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johnagent1911 Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Age: 25 Posts: 354	Sorry man but this is MAJOR red flags on why not to date her... She lost TRUST for YOU? When she went off and "pecked" some guy? I would personally not be calling this girl EVER again. __________________ www.seofonproject.com - art at its finest.

10-25-2004, 03:57 PM	#4
OceanEyes Offline Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 29 Posts: 1,883	Dave - this girl sounds nuts. You haven't even known each other for very long, and have only been exclusive for a couple of weeks. To actually get so upset about not being able to get ahold of you for a couple of hours, and actually assume you were with another woman? I'm sorry to sound so negative, but I see the signs of a woman who will turn out to be one scary broad - calling you obssessively, being overly inquisitive about your wereabouts, possessiveness, jealousy. She's telling you that you've "lost her trust", but I see absolutely no reason for this to be justified. I think that if she was level-headed and reasonable in the first place, she would have assumed that there was a logical explanation the first, or even the second, time you didn't pick up your cell. I've seen women like this Dave. Get away while you can or you're going to be kept on a very short leash. __________________ There is no map to human behaviour. - Bjork

10-27-2004, 06:26 PM	#5
dave795 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 3	the story continues Thanks

10-25-2004, 10:22 AM	#3
Cecelius Offline Member Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 727	Agreed. You sound like a good guy, so tell her you want to date her but not be exclusive since it seems like she's not really grown up enough to be in that kind of relationship. Then go find a girl who has her ego and her lips under control.