hearing my mom / sex

MissJBug · 10-05-2004, 07:36 PM

To get to the point, you should read my past posts. Basically my father i jerk and always has been to my mom. He got hepatitis C from the fire department, and the only reason why there together is because my mom couldnt live with the fact that she let someone die.

its been 25 years since he has had it, and latley he has been doing better. I guess my family is dealing with the fact that he will never get a liver transplant.

But latley ive been hearing him say very volger things to my mom like "i have a boner" and she says "im glad joe" and stuff like that...and he even said to her "im sorry i bled in you" and she goes "I told you not to worry joe" ...trust me...thers much more stuff.

I know that shes not using a condom. but what i cant figure out is why she is even having sex with him when she hates him. Shes not using a condom and although its only 1% chance of contacting hepatitis C, she could STILL GET IT!

It is none of my business if there having sex or not, but it is my business if my mom has hepatitis C and isnt telling me. because why else would she not use a condom....

Im so glad i have my older sister to tell this, and shes cant bleieve it. But she is going to kind of smooth it in with her talks and see if my mom is. Even though I know she is.

Is it any of my business if they are? and I just dont understand why they couldnt just keep it LOW so that i didnt have to EVEN KNOW. I am just so grossed out, and so confused by this hole thing.

My mom isnt happy, and latley shes been acting so happy. And my mom will NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL SHES GONE Away from my father. I just dont understand.

shygirl23 · 10-05-2004, 08:34 PM

It's good that you and your sister have talked about this and that you have your sister on your side. I'm assuming that you're very close to your mother. Do you two share things with each other? If so, then that might make it easier for you to talk to her. I really think that you should talk to her and tell her what's bothering you.

As for it being your business or not... Your parents' sex life probably isn't really any of your business, but if it has caused your mom to become sick, then that involves you too. I'd have to say that her possible illness is your business.

I think you should share your concerns with her.

lil kitty · 10-05-2004, 10:50 PM

umm in order for me to give you my oppinion i would like to know how your dad is being a jerk to yur mom. oh and do you know how he bled inside her? i want to know y it cause hm to bleed. sorry for a lot of questions b/c i ma just being curious.

MissJBug · 10-07-2004, 08:04 PM

my dad was mean to my mom (if u ever read my before posts)... he use to hit her, and he never use to be at home. He use to be out cheating. I just found out recently this year that he has 2 other children he disowns because of a one night stand...or should i say...2 night stands...
he has money hidden (well he thinks its a secret)...downstairs... and i mean 10's of thousands of dollars downstairs. and "if" he gets his liver transplant its easy to say that he's leaving us.

the only reason why my mother doesnt leave is because she doesnt want to live with the fact that she left someone to die. or else she would up and leave right now.

basically he is only with us and nice to us now because he is sick. i can tell you right now... if he wasnt as sick as he is... right this very moment he wouldnt be home.

i dont know how much he bleed in her... i was upstairs and i was on the computer and i had the door open and i heard him say "jan im sorry i bled in you" and she said "joe i told you it was ok now stop saying your sorry"

basically... thats all i can write right now, any more questions before i can get a decent answer?

MissJBug · 10-07-2004, 08:06 PM

ohh and as far as your question "what made him bleed"

My dad bleeds constantly, when he scratches himself in the leg it just starts bleeding, and he has a lot of blood in his urine and stool because his veins are all messed up, and he has bad bacteria in his blood. I dont know............... maybe my mom has always had it and never told me ... i dont even know what to say!

10-05-2004, 07:36 PM	#1
MissJBug Offline Join Date: Sep 2003 Gender: None Specified Age: 29 Posts: 112	hearing my mom / sex To get to the point, you should read my past posts. Basically my father i jerk and always has been to my mom. He got hepatitis C from the fire department, and the only reason why there together is because my mom couldnt live with the fact that she let someone die. its been 25 years since he has had it, and latley he has been doing better. I guess my family is dealing with the fact that he will never get a liver transplant. But latley ive been hearing him say very volger things to my mom like "i have a boner" and she says "im glad joe" and stuff like that...and he even said to her "im sorry i bled in you" and she goes "I told you not to worry joe" ...trust me...thers much more stuff. I know that shes not using a condom. but what i cant figure out is why she is even having sex with him when she hates him. Shes not using a condom and although its only 1% chance of contacting hepatitis C, she could STILL GET IT! It is none of my business if there having sex or not, but it is my business if my mom has hepatitis C and isnt telling me. because why else would she not use a condom.... Im so glad i have my older sister to tell this, and shes cant bleieve it. But she is going to kind of smooth it in with her talks and see if my mom is. Even though I know she is. Is it any of my business if they are? and I just dont understand why they couldnt just keep it LOW so that i didnt have to EVEN KNOW. I am just so grossed out, and so confused by this hole thing. My mom isnt happy, and latley shes been acting so happy. And my mom will NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL SHES GONE Away from my father. I just dont understand.

10-05-2004, 08:34 PM	#2
shygirl23 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: USA Gender: Female Posts: 303	It's good that you and your sister have talked about this and that you have your sister on your side. I'm assuming that you're very close to your mother. Do you two share things with each other? If so, then that might make it easier for you to talk to her. I really think that you should talk to her and tell her what's bothering you. As for it being your business or not... Your parents' sex life probably isn't really any of your business, but if it has caused your mom to become sick, then that involves you too. I'd have to say that her possible illness is your business. I think you should share your concerns with her.

10-05-2004, 10:50 PM	#3
lil kitty Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Michigan Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 112	umm in order for me to give you my oppinion i would like to know how your dad is being a jerk to yur mom. oh and do you know how he bled inside her? i want to know y it cause hm to bleed. sorry for a lot of questions b/c i ma just being curious.

10-07-2004, 08:04 PM	#4
MissJBug Offline Join Date: Sep 2003 Gender: None Specified Age: 29 Posts: 112	my dad was mean to my mom (if u ever read my before posts)... he use to hit her, and he never use to be at home. He use to be out cheating. I just found out recently this year that he has 2 other children he disowns because of a one night stand...or should i say...2 night stands... he has money hidden (well he thinks its a secret)...downstairs... and i mean 10's of thousands of dollars downstairs. and "if" he gets his liver transplant its easy to say that he's leaving us. the only reason why my mother doesnt leave is because she doesnt want to live with the fact that she left someone to die. or else she would up and leave right now. basically he is only with us and nice to us now because he is sick. i can tell you right now... if he wasnt as sick as he is... right this very moment he wouldnt be home. i dont know how much he bleed in her... i was upstairs and i was on the computer and i had the door open and i heard him say "jan im sorry i bled in you" and she said "joe i told you it was ok now stop saying your sorry" basically... thats all i can write right now, any more questions before i can get a decent answer?

10-07-2004, 08:06 PM	#5
MissJBug Offline Join Date: Sep 2003 Gender: None Specified Age: 29 Posts: 112	ohh and as far as your question "what made him bleed" My dad bleeds constantly, when he scratches himself in the leg it just starts bleeding, and he has a lot of blood in his urine and stool because his veins are all messed up, and he has bad bacteria in his blood. I dont know............... maybe my mom has always had it and never told me ... i dont even know what to say!