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helpme04 · 09-04-2004, 11:11 PM

Hey...i really dont know if i should post this here...or in the "suicide" section..so this will have to do. I've been cutting for 3 and a half years now and i've tried to kill myself a couple of times. As i can see from this website, alot of other people are going through the same problems i am. i want to stop but dont know how...all my friends try to "talk" to me about it but we end up fighting...which makes me do it yet again. help me...bye

Mun · 09-05-2004, 12:13 AM

Hi there
I don't know much about cutting but I want to ask you: Why is it that you and your friends end up fighting about it? Are you resisting their help or is it that you feel that they really can't help?

I have an idea about cutting and I may be wrong. I think that people cut because they feel like they don't have control over what is happening around them or within their own body. Do you know why you do it?

Sorry if I'm not much help.

helpme04 · 09-05-2004, 12:11 PM

Hey...i do it for alot of reasons...it started when i was in 4th grade because i had perfect friends and they made me feel like un-important compared to them...and from there i started doing it whenever i got mad.

The reason my friends and i like fite is b/c they sit there saying like "look. stop NOW..." they dont get how hard it is to stop....and they make me feel so like stupid b/c there all like treating me like a robot and making me feel like i have to be told wut to feel and wut to do, and be expected to do it perfectly without a problem...but i cant.

Mun · 09-05-2004, 12:37 PM

Have you seen a doctor about this? Or done any research on how to go about "stopping" yourself from cutting, you want to stop so that's a very good thing-- maybe you could use some outside help. It's very hard to do something on your own, even when you want to.

I really hope you find some help. You shouldn't have to go though this by yourself.

helpme02 · 09-05-2004, 03:30 PM

i know you want to stop...and i know how hard it is for you to stop....but some people are getting really scared. they are saying that its scaring them b/c they think your going to slip and die. i love you sooo much and your my bestest friend! you know im always gonna be here for you to have your back and help you out of that huge hole your in. we've gone through so much together...and im not gonna let you go through this alone! i love you so much and i understand what your going through. we'll get through this....im here for you!

iwillhelpyou02 · 09-05-2004, 06:29 PM

look im really sry i never ment 2 make things worse ill just go away and leave everything alone.

09-04-2004, 11:11 PM	#1
helpme04 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 11	help... Hey...i really dont know if i should post this here...or in the "suicide" section..so this will have to do. I've been cutting for 3 and a half years now and i've tried to kill myself a couple of times. As i can see from this website, alot of other people are going through the same problems i am. i want to stop but dont know how...all my friends try to "talk" to me about it but we end up fighting...which makes me do it yet again. help me...bye __________________ helpme04

09-05-2004, 12:13 AM	#2
Mun Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Way down South! Gender: Female Age: 41 Posts: 4,194	Hi there I don't know much about cutting but I want to ask you: Why is it that you and your friends end up fighting about it? Are you resisting their help or is it that you feel that they really can't help? I have an idea about cutting and I may be wrong. I think that people cut because they feel like they don't have control over what is happening around them or within their own body. Do you know why you do it? Sorry if I'm not much help. __________________ Ecclesiastes 3:1 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

09-05-2004, 12:11 PM	#3
helpme04 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 11	Hey...i do it for alot of reasons...it started when i was in 4th grade because i had perfect friends and they made me feel like un-important compared to them...and from there i started doing it whenever i got mad. The reason my friends and i like fite is b/c they sit there saying like "look. stop NOW..." they dont get how hard it is to stop....and they make me feel so like stupid b/c there all like treating me like a robot and making me feel like i have to be told wut to feel and wut to do, and be expected to do it perfectly without a problem...but i cant. __________________ helpme04

09-05-2004, 12:37 PM	#4
Mun Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Way down South! Gender: Female Age: 41 Posts: 4,194	Have you seen a doctor about this? Or done any research on how to go about "stopping" yourself from cutting, you want to stop so that's a very good thing-- maybe you could use some outside help. It's very hard to do something on your own, even when you want to. I really hope you find some help. You shouldn't have to go though this by yourself. __________________ Ecclesiastes 3:1 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

09-05-2004, 03:30 PM	#5
helpme02 Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: somewhere out there... Age: 18 Posts: 30	i know you want to stop...and i know how hard it is for you to stop....but some people are getting really scared. they are saying that its scaring them b/c they think your going to slip and die. i love you sooo much and your my bestest friend! you know im always gonna be here for you to have your back and help you out of that huge hole your in. we've gone through so much together...and im not gonna let you go through this alone! i love you so much and i understand what your going through. we'll get through this....im here for you! __________________ *helpme02*

09-05-2004, 06:29 PM	#6
iwillhelpyou02 Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: columbus Age: 18 Posts: 21	im sry look im really sry i never ment 2 make things worse ill just go away and leave everything alone. __________________ I need help. And so do you.