LOTS OF PAIN!!! PLEASE REPLY!!!! (death)

Gauchori · 08-12-2004, 01:30 AM

Hello there. Can someone please tell me how to get this off me. I very good friend of mine has killed herself today. She actually had Brain cancer but she wanted to take things in her own way. Before she killed herself she talked to me and told me that she loved me than she sign off. Wee talked by AIM. Than she... kileed herself. What shoulkd I do to get her off my head?!?!?? I always think about her!!

losinghope · 08-12-2004, 01:34 AM

Sorry to hear of your friend's loss.

There's no easy way of getting rid of the pain. Try to surround yourself with friends and family.

Gauchori · 08-12-2004, 01:37 AM

-Hello there. Wanna be my friend?!- is that what u mean? By the way, I live in kendall. Good knowing ya. (I guess) So thats it? just live with the pain is that what u mean?

dpressedone89 · 08-12-2004, 01:44 AM

wow im truely sorry man, i know having someone you care for take their own life causes extreme pain and anguish. the best thing to do is to be around people, in open environment and above all DO NOT KEEP IT INSIDE talk to someone, anyone, talk to me add me to ur msn ill be your friend i dont know anyway to make the pain go away but drink lots of water and talk it out with people.

sTiTcHeS aka The Antihero

ang3l2004 · 08-12-2004, 01:45 AM

I am so sorry about the loss of your friend and I hope everything goes well with you,Just remember you will never forget your friend you will always have the memories and it must be really hard right now and once again im so sorry that this happened.It is going to be hard not to think about this at first it will get easier but you will never forget her,Just keep yourself busy for right now and keep yourself around your friends and family and come on here and post all your feelings and thoughts and mabe that can help you a little bit.I wish you the best of luck and I hope things get better soon.

losinghope · 08-12-2004, 01:47 AM

of course, i would love to be your friend. But unfortunately i don't know how you would be able to stop thinking about her especially since you guys were close. how long ago did this happen? With time gradually you would be able to not think of her that much. Sorry if i wasn't helpful. Hope you feel better.

Gauchori · 08-12-2004, 01:50 AM

It happed today alround 1:00Pm eastern time

losinghope · 08-12-2004, 01:54 AM

wow, it's the first day. It's still a shock in your body. You are gonna go through the whole grieving process. It's really tough, i know. When my grandmoher passed away, i felt a little better after the funeral because i felt a sense of closure. maybe after the funeral, you get more closure and you'll begin to accept what happened. There's nothing wrong with crying alot and letting it all out, it's better than keeping it in. We're all here for you...

Gauchori · 08-12-2004, 02:02 AM

well... its the first day and night and I still can't smile

i_hate_the_world47 · 08-12-2004, 02:02 AM

fisrt of let me say igive you my deepest apologies about your friends death.I know how it feels to lose a friend in this horrible way.I know that our feeling alot of pain and i agree with dpressedone89.You need to talk this out.If you keep it bottled up you will slowly break down.Maybe you could talk to a friend or family member,or ever go to counseling or a therapist.I hope everything works well and god bless.

~Meagan~

08-12-2004, 01:30 AM	#1
Gauchori Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In an empty, white, 3D world. My head- Posts: 666	LOTS OF PAIN!!! PLEASE REPLY!!!! (death) Hello there. Can someone please tell me how to get this off me. I very good friend of mine has killed herself today. She actually had Brain cancer but she wanted to take things in her own way. Before she killed herself she talked to me and told me that she loved me than she sign off. Wee talked by AIM. Than she... kileed herself. What shoulkd I do to get her off my head?!?!?? I always think about her!!

08-12-2004, 01:44 AM	#4
dpressedone89 Offline Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: redwood city california Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 1,012	wow im truely sorry man, i know having someone you care for take their own life causes extreme pain and anguish. the best thing to do is to be around people, in open environment and above all DO NOT KEEP IT INSIDE talk to someone, anyone, talk to me add me to ur msn ill be your friend i dont know anyway to make the pain go away but drink lots of water and talk it out with people. sTiTcHeS aka The Antihero __________________ ~as you read this your life is ending, second after second you are wasting your life.stop living in fear, your time is limited, do something, write a book, paint a picture, start a fight, do something. because this is all coming to an end~

08-12-2004, 02:02 AM	#10
i_hate_the_world47 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 915	fisrt of let me say igive you my deepest apologies about your friends death.I know how it feels to lose a friend in this horrible way.I know that our feeling alot of pain and i agree with dpressedone89.You need to talk this out.If you keep it bottled up you will slowly break down.Maybe you could talk to a friend or family member,or ever go to counseling or a therapist.I hope everything works well and god bless. ~Meagan~ __________________ Whatever it takes....i know i can make it through

08-12-2004, 01:34 AM	#2
losinghope Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ft. Lauderdale, Fl Age: 28 Posts: 29	Sorry to hear of your friend's loss. There's no easy way of getting rid of the pain. Try to surround yourself with friends and family.

08-12-2004, 01:37 AM	#3
Gauchori Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In an empty, white, 3D world. My head- Posts: 666	-Hello there. Wanna be my friend?!- is that what u mean? By the way, I live in kendall. Good knowing ya. (I guess) So thats it? just live with the pain is that what u mean?

08-12-2004, 01:45 AM	#5
ang3l2004 Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: I wish somewhere I belong Posts: 985	I am so sorry about the loss of your friend and I hope everything goes well with you,Just remember you will never forget your friend you will always have the memories and it must be really hard right now and once again im so sorry that this happened.It is going to be hard not to think about this at first it will get easier but you will never forget her,Just keep yourself busy for right now and keep yourself around your friends and family and come on here and post all your feelings and thoughts and mabe that can help you a little bit.I wish you the best of luck and I hope things get better soon.

08-12-2004, 01:47 AM	#6
losinghope Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ft. Lauderdale, Fl Age: 28 Posts: 29	of course, i would love to be your friend. But unfortunately i don't know how you would be able to stop thinking about her especially since you guys were close. how long ago did this happen? With time gradually you would be able to not think of her that much. Sorry if i wasn't helpful. Hope you feel better.

08-12-2004, 01:50 AM	#7
Gauchori Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In an empty, white, 3D world. My head- Posts: 666	It happed today alround 1:00Pm eastern time

08-12-2004, 01:54 AM	#8
losinghope Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ft. Lauderdale, Fl Age: 28 Posts: 29	wow, it's the first day. It's still a shock in your body. You are gonna go through the whole grieving process. It's really tough, i know. When my grandmoher passed away, i felt a little better after the funeral because i felt a sense of closure. maybe after the funeral, you get more closure and you'll begin to accept what happened. There's nothing wrong with crying alot and letting it all out, it's better than keeping it in. We're all here for you...