I have been with my boyfriend for a long time. I won't get into everything, but we have alot of problems.. but we are also soulmates :[. this makes things worse because I feel the need to fix things. He doesn't respect me. He tells me. He hates it. I hate it. He thinks I'm immature.. yet he won't listen, and he is closeminded and thinks everything he says is correct. I think THAT is immature and I'm beyond him in that category. The question/problem is, how do I get him to respect me without having to change myself completely? How can I be myself, yet have him respect me? I'd love to have a one on one chat with anyone about this too.. but don't hold your breath.. I have alot more problems comin'.