I am a young teen considering suicide

i_hate_the_world47 · 07-02-2004, 03:40 PM

hey i am a young teen and i am considering suicide. i was just wondering if any of you cutters out there could give me some insight opinion advice on cutting

lil_unique_me · 07-02-2004, 03:45 PM

here is some advice. dont do it. talk to some one cos ive tried it and let me tell u love that it wont solve anything. it is just a permanent solution for a temporary subject and if anyone was to tell u how to do it then shame on them cos you are young and do have a life ahead of you. it may not feel it but you do.
just me doin my thing
Catie xxx

i_hate_the_world47 · 07-02-2004, 03:53 PM

i know i hae alot ahead of me but i dont care if i don live 2 see it. i dont think things could get ne better. its just to much stres and stuff to live wit

Chelseybug · 07-02-2004, 04:03 PM

I know it's hard to believe, but if you've actually hit rock bottom, things can only get better. My bf was slowly leaning toward suicide, and he decided to wait a while, and things have gotten tons better. We started going out, he solved a huge problem he had, and he realized that even if he doesn't think so, there are people that love him and would miss him. Think about it... if u killed urself, things can't get better in your life, cause u won't have a life. i don't know if u have a religeon or not, but believing in somthing can totally turn u around. it's happened to my friends before. DON"T GIVE UP!!! it'll all work out. As for cutting, once u start you won't be able to stop. It's a physical addiction, and addiction to endorphins. And believe it or not, eventually you will want to stop, so don't start in the first place. feel free to pm me, or talk to me on msn. [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] is my addy.

Love from,
Chelseybug

abcd1234 · 07-02-2004, 04:48 PM

Hello i_hate_the_world47,

I understand that you are feeling very down and that you cut yourself. Cutting is only a temporary fix for your problems and it leaves permenant scars, it may help to ease the stress but it cannot make it go away. Please stop this before you hurt yourself badly.

If you were to take your own life you would simply be ruining the chance of a great future. Would you rather be seen as the person who "gave in to the suffering" or as the person who "stuck it out even though it was tough"? When you come out of this phase you will understand what i mean, you will also be a much stronger person for coming through it.

Quote:

i know i hae alot ahead of me but i dont care if i don live 2 see it

The quote above tells me that you know inside yourself that you do have a future, i dont know what you think it is going to be like but i can tell you one thing:
The choices that you make now shape your future and make you into the person you want to be. You can pick your own life and live it in the way that you choose.

If you choose suicide you would be giving up that future and hurting so many of those around you who love you. Talk to them, maybe the love and care that they can give will help to give you something worth living for.

Please dont consider suicide and please try to stop cutting.
abcd1234

enchanter · 07-02-2004, 05:39 PM

First thing, you are 14, life barely has opened. I understand most people who really want to kill themselves do go through a lot at home, or have has some horrid occurance. You cant dwell on those thoughts, or feelings. If something is wrong at home then there are many things you can do to report, or try to change it.

I knew a girl who commited sucide a few months ago. She would have been damned suprised at the amount and who showed up to pay respect at her funeral. Sadly enough she had a little sister who is lucky she didn't walked in on her choice of hanging. Someone in her family had to walk in on that. Do you want someone walking in and finding you in some horrid way? Its cruel.

I just feel as if people who want to hurt themselves spend no time trying to improve themeselves. Ive been severely depressed and gotten out of it myself, after stupidly refusing to get help. You learn a lot when you overcome things like that. You can be happy by yourself, its the first place to start.

Think a little more. . .I doubt someone will give you advice to cut here, people are just a lot more focused on helping you from that action and theres a good reason why.

Hope things turn for the best

i_hate_the_world47 · 07-02-2004, 05:52 PM

yes ui do have alot going on at home and u r rite i am only 14. thats y it is so hard. i am young and ya i have my friends to talk to but they cantr help me ne more. i am beyond that point

d1whoutf · 07-02-2004, 09:48 PM

Hi I_hate_the_world47!
I'm sorry to hear that you want to end your life at this moment. You are 14, you are in the best period of your life, I mean, the parties, the friends, the hang outs. You are growing, you are getting to know the world... It's like when the flowers are beginning to open and show their most beautiful looks. It should be a great moment: the first crush (although it must not neccesarily work), the driving licence in a few years... it is like everything happens now.
I know it because, as you see, I'm also 14, and I know that there are a lot of great things I would miss If I decided to leave the world now.

However, sometimes I have also felt so down that I would like to go for the endless sleep and leave this place forever. Sometimes, it seems the whole world colapses and everyone is against me and nobody will understand me; even my best friends seem to have made a plot against me. But then I realize that I still have lots to live, lots to learn, lots to enjoy, and I see, that death is not my solution to problems.
Dieing wont solve any problems; you will only worsen them and give them to someone else, who might not be able to cope with them and will end killing himself too. It's like a chain reaction. Imagine how your parents, your friends or anyone will react to that: they will feel guilty for what has happened, they will be depressed, they will have lost someone very important.

I know that there are people out there who love you. If it's that bad, please tell us what your situation is. I'm sure everyone will try to help you, but please, DO NOT kill yourself.

I hope this helps,

D1whoutf

PS: have a look at this poem, it's great http://www.enotalone.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=13118

i_hate_the_world47 · 07-02-2004, 11:38 PM

Thanx every1 u r helping but i dont think i am gonna change my mind about death. things only seem to get worse and mayb things would b beter if i were gone

d1whoutf · 07-03-2004, 03:27 PM

well, It would be great if you could tell us what your situation is like.

07-02-2004, 03:40 PM	#1
i_hate_the_world47 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 915	I am a young teen considering suicide hey i am a young teen and i am considering suicide. i was just wondering if any of you cutters out there could give me some insight opinion advice on cutting __________________ Whatever it takes....i know i can make it through

07-02-2004, 03:45 PM	#2
lil_unique_me Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: some where over the rainbow Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 320	ye here is some advice. dont do it. talk to some one cos ive tried it and let me tell u love that it wont solve anything. it is just a permanent solution for a temporary subject and if anyone was to tell u how to do it then shame on them cos you are young and do have a life ahead of you. it may not feel it but you do. just me doin my thing Catie xxx

07-02-2004, 03:53 PM	#3
i_hate_the_world47 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 915	i know i hae alot ahead of me but i dont care if i don live 2 see it. i dont think things could get ne better. its just to much stres and stuff to live wit __________________ Whatever it takes....i know i can make it through

07-02-2004, 05:39 PM	#6
enchanter Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Age: 23 Posts: 76	First thing, you are 14, life barely has opened. I understand most people who really want to kill themselves do go through a lot at home, or have has some horrid occurance. You cant dwell on those thoughts, or feelings. If something is wrong at home then there are many things you can do to report, or try to change it. I knew a girl who commited sucide a few months ago. She would have been damned suprised at the amount and who showed up to pay respect at her funeral. Sadly enough she had a little sister who is lucky she didn't walked in on her choice of hanging. Someone in her family had to walk in on that. Do you want someone walking in and finding you in some horrid way? Its cruel. I just feel as if people who want to hurt themselves spend no time trying to improve themeselves. Ive been severely depressed and gotten out of it myself, after stupidly refusing to get help. You learn a lot when you overcome things like that. You can be happy by yourself, its the first place to start. Think a little more. . .I doubt someone will give you advice to cut here, people are just a lot more focused on helping you from that action and theres a good reason why. Hope things turn for the best __________________ With your feet in the air and your head on the ground Try this trick and spin it, yeah Your head will collapse But there's nothing in it And you'll ask yourself Where is my mind

07-02-2004, 05:52 PM	#7
i_hate_the_world47 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 915	yes ui do have alot going on at home and u r rite i am only 14. thats y it is so hard. i am young and ya i have my friends to talk to but they cantr help me ne more. i am beyond that point __________________ Whatever it takes....i know i can make it through

07-02-2004, 04:03 PM	#4
Chelseybug Offline Join Date: Jun 2004 Age: 19 Posts: 26	I know it's hard to believe, but if you've actually hit rock bottom, things can only get better. My bf was slowly leaning toward suicide, and he decided to wait a while, and things have gotten tons better. We started going out, he solved a huge problem he had, and he realized that even if he doesn't think so, there are people that love him and would miss him. Think about it... if u killed urself, things can't get better in your life, cause u won't have a life. i don't know if u have a religeon or not, but believing in somthing can totally turn u around. it's happened to my friends before. DON"T GIVE UP!!! it'll all work out. As for cutting, once u start you won't be able to stop. It's a physical addiction, and addiction to endorphins. And believe it or not, eventually you will want to stop, so don't start in the first place. feel free to pm me, or talk to me on msn. [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] is my addy. Love from, Chelseybug

07-02-2004, 09:48 PM	#8
d1whoutf Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: somewhere Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 59	Hi I_hate_the_world47! I'm sorry to hear that you want to end your life at this moment. You are 14, you are in the best period of your life, I mean, the parties, the friends, the hang outs. You are growing, you are getting to know the world... It's like when the flowers are beginning to open and show their most beautiful looks. It should be a great moment: the first crush (although it must not neccesarily work), the driving licence in a few years... it is like everything happens now. I know it because, as you see, I'm also 14, and I know that there are a lot of great things I would miss If I decided to leave the world now. However, sometimes I have also felt so down that I would like to go for the endless sleep and leave this place forever. Sometimes, it seems the whole world colapses and everyone is against me and nobody will understand me; even my best friends seem to have made a plot against me. But then I realize that I still have lots to live, lots to learn, lots to enjoy, and I see, that death is not my solution to problems. Dieing wont solve any problems; you will only worsen them and give them to someone else, who might not be able to cope with them and will end killing himself too. It's like a chain reaction. Imagine how your parents, your friends or anyone will react to that: they will feel guilty for what has happened, they will be depressed, they will have lost someone very important. I know that there are people out there who love you. If it's that bad, please tell us what your situation is. I'm sure everyone will try to help you, but please, DO NOT kill yourself. I hope this helps, D1whoutf PS: have a look at this poem, it's great http://www.enotalone.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=13118

07-02-2004, 11:38 PM	#9
i_hate_the_world47 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 915	Thanx every1 u r helping but i dont think i am gonna change my mind about death. things only seem to get worse and mayb things would b beter if i were gone __________________ Whatever it takes....i know i can make it through

07-03-2004, 03:27 PM	#10
d1whoutf Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: somewhere Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 59	well, It would be great if you could tell us what your situation is like.