Please help!!!!!

Alkazar · 05-18-2004, 02:10 PM

Hi everyone!

I have been dating this guy for 5 months now. The last time i spoke with him was Friday. I called him Saturday and left him a message. He has not called me back. Should i be concern and call him or wait for him to call back? Or Blow him off?

Please advise.

just_smile · 05-18-2004, 02:20 PM

hey

id give him some time, i wouldnt waste 5 months on the fact that he hasnt called you back, im sure he will, if he doesnt called back or contact you in any way then, in like a week or so then decide.

~LJ

Screamindemonuk · 05-21-2004, 05:22 PM

Definately be patient. He may be busy. I went out with a girl and I didn't contact her for a few days because work was manic. When I spoke to her, she thought I had finished with her and run off with another girl. The truth was I didn't get a chance to.
You've made the phonecall, the ball is in his court now.

Alkazar · 05-21-2004, 05:26 PM

Hello everyone!

Thank you for your advice. He finally called. He told me that he has some personal issues and was very sick.

Again thank you!

A

just_smile · 05-22-2004, 09:12 AM

hey
wow thats good, i bet your glad you waited, anyways i hope thing work out for you

~LJ

Alkazar · 05-22-2004, 12:39 PM

Hi there!

Actually, I could not wait for him until the end of the week. 4 days later, I emailed him, asked how he is doing, and hope everything is okay. Also, I told him that he doesn't have to avoid me and told him that I understand completely. In addition, I asked him to meet me somewhere so he can give me my stuff back. Well, he replied, told me the reasons, told me he was not trying to avoid me and will try to call me. Since then he has been calling me. Do think my email was a threat to him?

Please advise,
A

Screamindemonuk · 05-22-2004, 02:52 PM

I wouldn't say your e-mail was a threat. It possibly showed him that your not gonna stand to be ignored. Which is good because it shows confidence in yourself, and that is important. As long as it doesnt turn into a tantrum.

05-18-2004, 02:10 PM	#1
Alkazar Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Cypress Posts: 14	Please help!!!!! Hi everyone! I have been dating this guy for 5 months now. The last time i spoke with him was Friday. I called him Saturday and left him a message. He has not called me back. Should i be concern and call him or wait for him to call back? Or Blow him off? Please advise.

05-18-2004, 02:20 PM	#2
just_smile Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: location? u wanna know? u really wanna?! well ok here goes . . . Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 322	hey id give him some time, i wouldnt waste 5 months on the fact that he hasnt called you back, im sure he will, if he doesnt called back or contact you in any way then, in like a week or so then decide. ~LJ __________________ Whats black to one person is white to another, nothing in this world is so good its pure white and nothings is so bad that its pure black, everything in this world concerning humans, comes in shades of grey

05-22-2004, 09:12 AM	#5
just_smile Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: location? u wanna know? u really wanna?! well ok here goes . . . Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 322	hey wow thats good, i bet your glad you waited, anyways i hope thing work out for you ~LJ __________________ Whats black to one person is white to another, nothing in this world is so good its pure white and nothings is so bad that its pure black, everything in this world concerning humans, comes in shades of grey

05-21-2004, 05:22 PM	#3
Screamindemonuk Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Kent, England Age: 30 Posts: 27	Definately be patient. He may be busy. I went out with a girl and I didn't contact her for a few days because work was manic. When I spoke to her, she thought I had finished with her and run off with another girl. The truth was I didn't get a chance to. You've made the phonecall, the ball is in his court now.

05-21-2004, 05:26 PM	#4
Alkazar Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Cypress Posts: 14	Hello everyone! Thank you for your advice. He finally called. He told me that he has some personal issues and was very sick. Again thank you! A

05-22-2004, 12:39 PM	#6
Alkazar Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Cypress Posts: 14	Hi there! Actually, I could not wait for him until the end of the week. 4 days later, I emailed him, asked how he is doing, and hope everything is okay. Also, I told him that he doesn't have to avoid me and told him that I understand completely. In addition, I asked him to meet me somewhere so he can give me my stuff back. Well, he replied, told me the reasons, told me he was not trying to avoid me and will try to call me. Since then he has been calling me. Do think my email was a threat to him? Please advise, A

05-22-2004, 02:52 PM	#7
Screamindemonuk Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Kent, England Age: 30 Posts: 27	I wouldn't say your e-mail was a threat. It possibly showed him that your not gonna stand to be ignored. Which is good because it shows confidence in yourself, and that is important. As long as it doesnt turn into a tantrum.