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Old 04-12-2004, 02:52 AM   #1
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classic love square

its a classic love square.
theres a guy Joey and me. I'm really into joey but joey really likes my frien carol. carol has a boyfriend named jason and both of them are a really cute couple. you see, joey wants me to help him convince carol that jason isnt the guy for her. the problem is though, i like joey and i dont want carol to hurt jason. what should i do? should i help joey or should i just tell him to get over her? what do i do about my own feelings?
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Old 04-12-2004, 03:12 AM   #2
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So you like this joey guy and you are even considering helping him steal your friend carol from jason???

Does Joey know you like him?

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Old 04-12-2004, 10:24 AM   #3
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I agree...

Are you even sure you really like this kid Joey, cause he isn't acting very cool trying to get you to come between your friends relationship.

Friendships are a very important type of relationship too, don't forget. It already sounds like you have made the right decision anyways. If joey doesnt like it, than he doesnt respect who you are and you dont need that anyways.

If you want joey to be come interested in you, why don't you work on devoloping a friendship with him, and let him get to know you. Learn about his interests, maybe you have stuff in commen. Work it from that angle.
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