I hate feeling depressed about ex-lover

penda · 02-02-2004, 10:07 AM

OMG why am I feeling so sad today

? Me and the guy I used to see are still not on talking terms. I'm trying to forget him and act like he is nobody, but it so hard. I see him every single day. It would help things if would try to be much nicer to me. He ignores me except when I'm by myself, and even so, he doesn't say much to me. I tried being friendly to him, but he's still mad at me, because of what I did (see http://www.enotalone.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3636&highlight= ). Today, I saw him, and he is now spending time with other girls. I'm trying to move on myself, but the new guy I'm trying to have a relationship with now, is long distance and moving extra slow even though we have been friends for years.

For some reason , I am having so much trouble getting over this guy, it been almost a year and I still can't shake him. It's not like I went out with him for a long time (we dated for 2 months), but for some reason I feel so much love for this guy, a love like I never felt. It reallly hurts that I can't resolve our issues and be friends. I can't understand why he hates so much. It reallly kills me inside.

sidehop · 02-02-2004, 11:32 AM

I'm sorry about your situation...it sounds like he's being distant from what had happened at the party. I would give him space for now and as hard as it may seem & the fact that you see him around everyday, try to focus on yourself right now.

If it's meant to happen, he will come back to you. Hang in there...

02-02-2004, 10:07 AM	#1
penda Offline Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 30	I hate feeling depressed about ex-lover OMG why am I feeling so sad today ? Me and the guy I used to see are still not on talking terms. I'm trying to forget him and act like he is nobody, but it so hard. I see him every single day. It would help things if would try to be much nicer to me. He ignores me except when I'm by myself, and even so, he doesn't say much to me. I tried being friendly to him, but he's still mad at me, because of what I did (see http://www.enotalone.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3636&highlight= ). Today, I saw him, and he is now spending time with other girls. I'm trying to move on myself, but the new guy I'm trying to have a relationship with now, is long distance and moving extra slow even though we have been friends for years. For some reason , I am having so much trouble getting over this guy, it been almost a year and I still can't shake him. It's not like I went out with him for a long time (we dated for 2 months), but for some reason I feel so much love for this guy, a love like I never felt. It reallly hurts that I can't resolve our issues and be friends. I can't understand why he hates so much. It reallly kills me inside.

02-02-2004, 11:32 AM	#2
sidehop Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: NH USA Gender: Male Posts: 1,599	I'm sorry about your situation...it sounds like he's being distant from what had happened at the party. I would give him space for now and as hard as it may seem & the fact that you see him around everyday, try to focus on yourself right now. If it's meant to happen, he will come back to you. Hang in there...