question for the men!!!

allstarsassyone · 01-19-2004, 08:40 PM

Why does my boyfriend cry when I ask him if he cheats on me??? Am I being too mean? Would it be the guilt???? WHAT?!?!?!

ForAnother · 01-19-2004, 08:45 PM

my GF thinks that I think. I don't, but I get upset that she thinks of me in that way. I get upset she would even consider that, because if I tell my GF that I love her, then that means that she is the one I care about. i would never do that, so the thought of her thinking that I am disloyal is like saying "I don't trust you" which in my opinion is the bases of any relationship.

For Another

Michael2 · 01-19-2004, 09:00 PM

Try not to get mad at him. Just reassure him that you love and adhore his companionship and that you couldnt pictire yourself with anyone other then him. If this is an ongoing problem, then it is probably insecurity issues.

Best of luck.

capt_ron · 01-27-2004, 12:12 AM

Are you male or female?

allstarsassyone · 02-09-2004, 08:20 PM

female

01-19-2004, 08:40 PM	#1
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ForAnother Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 985	my GF thinks that I think. I don't, but I get upset that she thinks of me in that way. I get upset she would even consider that, because if I tell my GF that I love her, then that means that she is the one I care about. i would never do that, so the thought of her thinking that I am disloyal is like saying "I don't trust you" which in my opinion is the bases of any relationship. For Another __________________ ........................ I will ...oooO.............. be ...(....).....Oooo... too ....\...(......(....).... lost ......._)......)../..... to be ...............(_/....... the ... ......... ........... same

01-19-2004, 09:00 PM	#3
Michael2 Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 549	Try not to get mad at him. Just reassure him that you love and adhore his companionship and that you couldnt pictire yourself with anyone other then him. If this is an ongoing problem, then it is probably insecurity issues. Best of luck.

01-27-2004, 12:12 AM	#4
capt_ron Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Colorado Posts: 7	Are you male or female?

02-09-2004, 08:20 PM	#5
allstarsassyone Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 89	female