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murrman · 01-08-2004, 12:43 AM

Hi everyone thanks for viewing

My problem is simply this, I don't want to be lonely anymore and I just want to forget about girls all together and be able to focus on my life again. I have had many failed dates and relationships lately and I would like to just live a single life happily without even worrying about girls at all. How can I do this? I'm really hurting inside and I long to fill the hole but my daily routine isn't fufilling enough. I just want to be content and humble with my work and studies. I know I have a great life and everything but every day I just feel so miserable and I dont know how to make these feelings go away. please help me with suggestions

Caldus · 01-08-2004, 01:07 AM

I feel lonely sometimes myself. Of course I have never been in a relationship, so I do not know how painful it is to break up from relationships. One thing I have tried in the last few weeks is reading about a new lifestyle. I am getting into Christianity. Someone bought a book for me called The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren which is an excellent book for anyone who feels like they lack direction in their life. It places much emphasis on Christianity and God. I am starting to have faith again because of this book. I can definitely say that there is a little bit more direction in my life now as a result of reading this book.

Maybe you haven't found the right person for you yet. If all else fails, you could always try browsing personals and find females in your area that are single and meet a certain criteria for you.

Good luck and I hope these suggestions helped!

S4il · 01-08-2004, 01:33 AM

Join the CLub, i have not had a G/f in over 5 years....But i'm not stressing any...i still have a great group of friends, and i love to meet new people, that keeps happening every week, am i looking for someone..NOPE, why that is is simple..

"when you stop looking so hard, Someone finds you"

well i guess that takes time, But good things come to those who wait, And i have been waiting and waiting and waiting...when is cupid going to strike next..?

i just wanted you too know "Your Not Alone"

Chupa Chup · 01-08-2004, 02:10 AM

i agree with S4il. i believe that when you actually STOP looking for love, it will come find you when you LEAST expect it. i want to tell you that it HAS happened to me 3 times. after each break up, i realize that i had met those exs of mine when i was happy with myself, living my life (tho sometimes i feel lonely - everyone does sometimes) and having a good set of friends around me. DON'T find love. when you don't, it will come looking for you.

i also believe that we also need to find our faith and strength in God and pray that one day He'll bring the person meant to be with us in our paths. caldus, i'm so glad for you and i hope that God will grant you a good direction and path to take in your life and in your love life. i am trying to lean and trust Him too in my life and the Will He has for me.

take care of yourself ... and your heart.

01-08-2004, 12:43 AM	#1
murrman Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: boston Posts: 28	Need help. please reply Hi everyone thanks for viewing My problem is simply this, I don't want to be lonely anymore and I just want to forget about girls all together and be able to focus on my life again. I have had many failed dates and relationships lately and I would like to just live a single life happily without even worrying about girls at all. How can I do this? I'm really hurting inside and I long to fill the hole but my daily routine isn't fufilling enough. I just want to be content and humble with my work and studies. I know I have a great life and everything but every day I just feel so miserable and I dont know how to make these feelings go away. please help me with suggestions __________________ May your work of life, be a work of art

01-08-2004, 02:10 AM	#4
Chupa Chup Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 32	i agree with S4il. i believe that when you actually STOP looking for love, it will come find you when you LEAST expect it. i want to tell you that it HAS happened to me 3 times. after each break up, i realize that i had met those exs of mine when i was happy with myself, living my life (tho sometimes i feel lonely - everyone does sometimes) and having a good set of friends around me. DON'T find love. when you don't, it will come looking for you. i also believe that we also need to find our faith and strength in God and pray that one day He'll bring the person meant to be with us in our paths. caldus, i'm so glad for you and i hope that God will grant you a good direction and path to take in your life and in your love life. i am trying to lean and trust Him too in my life and the Will He has for me. take care of yourself ... and your heart. __________________ Carpe Diem - Sieze The Day!

01-08-2004, 01:07 AM	#2
Caldus Offline Silver Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Forever a Non-Windows User =D Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 2,796	I feel lonely sometimes myself. Of course I have never been in a relationship, so I do not know how painful it is to break up from relationships. One thing I have tried in the last few weeks is reading about a new lifestyle. I am getting into Christianity. Someone bought a book for me called The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren which is an excellent book for anyone who feels like they lack direction in their life. It places much emphasis on Christianity and God. I am starting to have faith again because of this book. I can definitely say that there is a little bit more direction in my life now as a result of reading this book. Maybe you haven't found the right person for you yet. If all else fails, you could always try browsing personals and find females in your area that are single and meet a certain criteria for you. Good luck and I hope these suggestions helped!

01-08-2004, 01:33 AM	#3
S4il Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Age: 28 Posts: 926	Join the CLub, i have not had a G/f in over 5 years....But i'm not stressing any...i still have a great group of friends, and i love to meet new people, that keeps happening every week, am i looking for someone..NOPE, why that is is simple.. "when you stop looking so hard, Someone finds you" well i guess that takes time, But good things come to those who wait, And i have been waiting and waiting and waiting...when is cupid going to strike next..? i just wanted you too know "Your Not Alone"