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    How... do you go down on a girl?

    I'm embarassed to ask, but how do you go down on a girl? I know the basics, but ... advice from someone experienced would be greatly appreciated. I've never done it, and I've heard that it's a great pleaser for the women. I think I'm at the point in my relationship that it would be fun and comfortable exploring new things. Any tips/advice, even a step by step! would be appreciated. Thanks
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    well my b/f will start by kissing my neck and then work his way down slowly and then yea. if your asking what to do once down there someone else may be able to help you a little better but playing with her clit with your tongue starting fast, and then slowing down when and if she starts to jolt. but it is different for other people. hopefully this helped a bit and someone else will prolly help you more. good luck.
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    Ah, one of my favorite things, you are a smart man to want to learn to do this well.

    Its not just about the mechanics of it, its the whole thing, noticed how the last woman said, "he started on her neck and worked slowely down" you dont wanna hit the bullseye right away, its not about just getting her hot by doing this, you want to get her so hot that she begs you to start already thats when shes ready.

    Its hard to describe what to do, because each woman is different, and what make excellent sex is being "in-tune" and sensitive to her body language, subtle things like how she moves her head, legs, her breathing even her heartbeat.

    I like to build the anticipation up so much in them they cant take it anymore, kissing on the mouth, touchs with my hand, sweet words from my mouth, I kiss lick, even nibble using my lips on and all around her down there, slowley sliding my tongue, tracing certain areas, when she just cant take it anymore, thats when ill start on her clitoris, I change rythm or technique often, flicks, licks, and su$%ing her, always sensitive to her responses, lightly teasing her little pearl with the tip of my tongue.

    There are so many variations, sometimes Ill stick a finger inside her at the same time, massaging her g-spot. I really love giving a woman oral sex, is just turns me on, its powerful in a way, to make her tremble and explode underneath you like that. everything about it makes me wild with passion, the taste, aroma, the feel. its wonderful.

    Thanks to you, now I gotta take a cold shower.

    by the way, the clit is in the upper portion where the labia minora meet, sometimes hidden under a hood, it is very very sensetive so be careful, it sometimes is so sensitive it can bother her sometimes if over stimulated.

    as for pressure, speed, etc, that varies, but usually start slow and soft, and build up slowly speed and intensity using feed back as a guide (moans breathing, heart beat. her hand behind my head pushing me in).

    also, have a little towel ready, to wipe you mouth, before kissing her, you may dig her taste, but some women are a little turned off by their own juices. just depends on the gal. if you show how much you enjoy it, and compliment her on her taste and how pleasent it is, she will feel so much more relaxed, some girls (usually young inexperienced) are very worried about aroma or that you may get grossed out or something. make them feel comfortable that everything is a ok.
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    There is also a little white head just up underneath the clitoris that is very sensitive. it takes a while to get it to pop down cause its up and under. its a real good hotspot.

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    this is mostly a play it by ear thing, dont fly down there and start slurping away. its not a rush job. try different areas and gauge her reaction.

    and dont listen to the last post, when you are done, kiss her square on the lips, she'll remember it forever, though she may dump you for it, or she may like it in which case she's probably bi (personal experience)
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    ok, well i won't go into detail, but here's a helpful tidbit...visit clitical.com and it has well, um detailed instructions. it is a professional website, it is educational and not perverted at all. it is there to help those such as yourself.

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    oral sex is beter option , it turns a lady on too easily. Just explore her emotions it works.

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    most girls run from me after a while not lasting as much as i want in a relatinship some evevn refusing me sex. What do i do?

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    I'm finding it hard to explain. What works for one girl might not work for another. But it's fun figuring out what she likes heheh. You can lick, suck, and kiss. Watch her body to see what she likes.
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    some tips: the fingers inside while giving oral is always a bonus
    also tensing the tongue a bit when on the clit helps things go faster (for me)

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