Depressed that my ex never wrote me back

kantore · 09-20-2003, 07:11 PM

Hey well I wrote my ex a email and she never replied. It has been over a month, and nothing. Does this mean that she is not over me yet, and that it is too hard to write back?or does it mean that she does not care about me anymore and wants nothing to do with me? I have another question for all of you. Do you think that paths cross again in life? So if they do, then will I ever see her again?

SunnyScott · 09-20-2003, 10:31 PM

It could be that her e-mail address is inactive you know...

If not, yes, maybe she does still have feelings for you. Sometimes it's tough to move on from a relationship, and when an ex tries to contact you, it only slows the process down from moving on from the breakup.

Anyway, I don't know how long your breakup is, and on what circumstance, but why don't you try e-mailing her again, or give her a call.

If you have her address, then write to her. Writing a letter is one of the best ways of showing your feelings.

mfurb33 · 09-21-2003, 01:09 AM

I think that you've been waiting too long already on a response...move on, my friend. When you sent the e-mail, you should've known that no response might have been a possible scenario, and to be 'depressed' about it is not a way to go....It's tough to not 'hang on' to whatever hope you have to rekindle whatever kind of relationship you want with her, but odds are, she's not responding cause she doesn't want to. Don't call, don't write, DO live....I'm not sure what the background of your situation is, but I know that waiting around on someone to come back into your life is not the way to go. Keep floating around on this website and you'll come to realize it...best of luck to you...

Genesis · 09-21-2003, 04:43 PM

Why don't you call her and see how she is doing. It is better to know that she does not want to date you than to spend the rest of your life wondering how she fells. I think she has moved on. In one of your other post you said the she was upset that you waited all that time to call her. I think you said you waited until New Years, and that she said "she is over you". She may still fell the same way, I think you waited too late to try something with her. You should have contacted her sonner rather than later.

I think you should think of ways to move on, I think it is over. Maybe you should think of dating others. If you really loved her I think you would have at least tried a long distance relationship. If you really loved her you would have not broken up with her or at least that is what I would think. I know people who have lovers who live in other countries and they still try to make things work.

Well call her, hell she is your ex-GF for goodness sakes not some stranger on the street! If you want it to be done and over with and know where you stand then call!!! I think she to tell you the truth has moved on, If you cannot bear to hear those words then do not call.

09-20-2003, 07:11 PM	#1
kantore Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: right here Posts: 139	Depressed that my ex never wrote me back Hey well I wrote my ex a email and she never replied. It has been over a month, and nothing. Does this mean that she is not over me yet, and that it is too hard to write back?or does it mean that she does not care about me anymore and wants nothing to do with me? I have another question for all of you. Do you think that paths cross again in life? So if they do, then will I ever see her again?

09-21-2003, 01:09 AM	#3
mfurb33 Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 67	I think that you've been waiting too long already on a response...move on, my friend. When you sent the e-mail, you should've known that no response might have been a possible scenario, and to be 'depressed' about it is not a way to go....It's tough to not 'hang on' to whatever hope you have to rekindle whatever kind of relationship you want with her, but odds are, she's not responding cause she doesn't want to. Don't call, don't write, DO live....I'm not sure what the background of your situation is, but I know that waiting around on someone to come back into your life is not the way to go. Keep floating around on this website and you'll come to realize it...best of luck to you... __________________ And all it was, was something beautiful....where tides and dreams don't seem so tall, at all....

09-21-2003, 04:43 PM	#4
Genesis Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 367	Why don't you call her and see how she is doing. It is better to know that she does not want to date you than to spend the rest of your life wondering how she fells. I think she has moved on. In one of your other post you said the she was upset that you waited all that time to call her. I think you said you waited until New Years, and that she said "she is over you". She may still fell the same way, I think you waited too late to try something with her. You should have contacted her sonner rather than later. I think you should think of ways to move on, I think it is over. Maybe you should think of dating others. If you really loved her I think you would have at least tried a long distance relationship. If you really loved her you would have not broken up with her or at least that is what I would think. I know people who have lovers who live in other countries and they still try to make things work. Well call her, hell she is your ex-GF for goodness sakes not some stranger on the street! If you want it to be done and over with and know where you stand then call!!! I think she to tell you the truth has moved on, If you cannot bear to hear those words then do not call. __________________ Love is patient, love is kind...Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

09-20-2003, 10:31 PM	#2
SunnyScott Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 142	It could be that her e-mail address is inactive you know... If not, yes, maybe she does still have feelings for you. Sometimes it's tough to move on from a relationship, and when an ex tries to contact you, it only slows the process down from moving on from the breakup. Anyway, I don't know how long your breakup is, and on what circumstance, but why don't you try e-mailing her again, or give her a call. If you have her address, then write to her. Writing a letter is one of the best ways of showing your feelings.