Kissing Concerns

Yos · 09-01-2003, 10:42 PM

I am 16. I have yet to meet my first girlfriend (she is also 16.) for our relationship is a long-distance online one. She has had a boyfriend prior to me, and she has had a kiss. We occasionally talk about my first kiss. As I recently think about it, I feel I may not be ready for a kiss when we meet for real. So, my question is this: How do I know when I am ready for my first kiss?

Pengui6668 · 09-01-2003, 10:46 PM

How could you not be ready to/ personally i couldn't wait.. i was 13 or 14 i think? that young kissing's like the biggest thing in the world... nowadays kissing's the least of most parents' concerns unfortunately.. It's natural and fun.. no reason to be afraid of it..

Yos · 09-01-2003, 10:50 PM

Maybe it would be helpful to add that I am a very shy person....

S4il · 09-01-2003, 11:05 PM

http://www.enotalone.com/article/991.html

click that link and Read everything, even material on the side, other links to click on about kissing in general, Dude it's nothing like it seems., Trust me!

the Cherry Stem Trick works for me, try to put a knot in a cherry stem in your mouth with out using your hands of course, that trick takes alot of practice, and ask her to try it too, than say "well lets try it together, Without the Cherry stem" God....isn't that Sweet...gott@ use the Brain Power, your words are everything, But your actions are more. Just do it (nike)

lauralied · 09-01-2003, 11:08 PM

Yos:

You should kiss when you're ready! My first kiss happened when I was 15, and I had been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year! So take your time ad do it whenever you feel ready! No need to rush. Another piece of advice my friends gave me that I thought was helpful was to just do what the other person does with their lips. You'll get the hang of it. By the way, my first boyfriend (the one I waited a year to kiss) became a very long-term relationship (I'm 22 and just recently we decided to go our own ways), and he is the reason I am a good kisser today!! take care bud

L

Yos · 09-01-2003, 11:27 PM

I think my question has been skewered. I did ask how to "tell if I am ready for my first kiss" didn't I? Or maybe I missed the answer somwhere.

SarCareBear · 09-02-2003, 12:03 AM

how to tell?? You will just feel a sort of sexual urge, I gfuess.. youll just instinctively want to feel her and touch her, and kissing is the most passionate way (in my opinion).. so if you just want to is the best answer i can give! good luck..

pimpcess · 09-02-2003, 07:24 AM

Yes I agree with the above, you'll be together, you'll look at her, and it'll almost be an urge!! Dont be nervous about it, enjoy it!

Good luck

09-01-2003, 10:42 PM	#1
Yos Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 4	Kissing Concerns I am 16. I have yet to meet my first girlfriend (she is also 16.) for our relationship is a long-distance online one. She has had a boyfriend prior to me, and she has had a kiss. We occasionally talk about my first kiss. As I recently think about it, I feel I may not be ready for a kiss when we meet for real. So, my question is this: How do I know when I am ready for my first kiss? __________________ LOVE and PEACE- Vash the Stampede(Trigun Anime/Manga)

09-01-2003, 10:50 PM	#3
Yos Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 4	Maybe it would be helpful to add that I am a very shy person.... __________________ LOVE and PEACE- Vash the Stampede(Trigun Anime/Manga)

09-01-2003, 11:27 PM	#6
Yos Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 4	I think my question has been skewered. I did ask how to "tell if I am ready for my first kiss" didn't I? Or maybe I missed the answer somwhere. __________________ LOVE and PEACE- Vash the Stampede(Trigun Anime/Manga)

09-01-2003, 10:46 PM	#2
Pengui6668 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 154	How could you not be ready to/ personally i couldn't wait.. i was 13 or 14 i think? that young kissing's like the biggest thing in the world... nowadays kissing's the least of most parents' concerns unfortunately.. It's natural and fun.. no reason to be afraid of it..

09-01-2003, 11:05 PM	#4
S4il Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Age: 28 Posts: 926	http://www.enotalone.com/article/991.html click that link and Read everything, even material on the side, other links to click on about kissing in general, Dude it's nothing like it seems., Trust me! the Cherry Stem Trick works for me, try to put a knot in a cherry stem in your mouth with out using your hands of course, that trick takes alot of practice, and ask her to try it too, than say "well lets try it together, Without the Cherry stem" God....isn't that Sweet...gott@ use the Brain Power, your words are everything, But your actions are more. Just do it (nike)

09-01-2003, 11:08 PM	#5
lauralied Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Minnesota Posts: 78	Yos: You should kiss when you're ready! My first kiss happened when I was 15, and I had been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year! So take your time ad do it whenever you feel ready! No need to rush. Another piece of advice my friends gave me that I thought was helpful was to just do what the other person does with their lips. You'll get the hang of it. By the way, my first boyfriend (the one I waited a year to kiss) became a very long-term relationship (I'm 22 and just recently we decided to go our own ways), and he is the reason I am a good kisser today!! take care bud L

09-02-2003, 12:03 AM	#7
SarCareBear Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 255	how to tell?? You will just feel a sort of sexual urge, I gfuess.. youll just instinctively want to feel her and touch her, and kissing is the most passionate way (in my opinion).. so if you just want to is the best answer i can give! good luck..

09-02-2003, 07:24 AM	#8
pimpcess Offline Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: U.k! Reppin Bristol 2 the fullest! Posts: 306	Yes I agree with the above, you'll be together, you'll look at her, and it'll almost be an urge!! Dont be nervous about it, enjoy it! Good luck