Addicted to cyber sex??

toomuch · 08-11-2003, 11:04 AM

A guy I know started sending me im's and it started to get kind of hot. We just kept going back and forth I had never done that before. That was on friday. Now I have been in chat rooms with people all the time. I feel like this is so wrong. I spent most of the weekend masturbating. Is this a bad thing and how do I stop from going back?

segagirl · 08-11-2003, 11:15 AM

hey toomuch, I don't understand why you feel it is wrong for you? If you enjoy it, then why not? Its safer than real sex.

toomuch · 08-11-2003, 11:36 AM

I am just worried that I have been doing it so much. Thanks for the advice.

ZTB · 08-11-2003, 02:04 PM

I Was Addicted Myself For A While,You Can Stop Any Time,If Good Will Power.

SilverPlan · 08-11-2003, 07:16 PM

I agree with ZTB, I used to be addicted to it also, and heck I don't mind admitting it, but cyber sex is fun to...it seems to help you gain more experience in a way...anyways hope this helps.

Rsix15 · 12-15-2003, 09:48 PM

Relax. that's how i spend my weekends! lol, j/k.. nah, you should definatly stop this before it gets any worse. masturbation is good every now and then, but if you do it all day, everyday.. it becomes an unhealthy obsession. this can lead to anything from sex addiction, drug use (trying substances to enhance the feeling), and, at worst, prostitution: the idea of taking something that should be valued above all else and making profit from it (don't worry, this is years and years down the line. with the help of eNotalone, you'll nip it in the butt.). but the first two can creep up on you, so try to stay away from chat rooms and talking to people you don't know for awhile.. a girl your age (which, i dont know but i'm assuming late teens) should be worrying about boyfriends, and clothes and makeup and stuff: not about when the next time you'll be getting off will be. you're not abnormal or anything, probably just going through a rocky stage of puberty. relax, take it one day at a time, and remember you'll always have your friends to go to for advice. only ask your true, 7+ year friends since they will be able to counsel you the best as they've known you the longest.

08-11-2003, 11:04 AM	#1
toomuch Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 6	Addicted to cyber sex?? A guy I know started sending me im's and it started to get kind of hot. We just kept going back and forth I had never done that before. That was on friday. Now I have been in chat rooms with people all the time. I feel like this is so wrong. I spent most of the weekend masturbating. Is this a bad thing and how do I stop from going back?

08-11-2003, 11:15 AM	#2
segagirl Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: not sure anymore.....:) Posts: 887	hey toomuch, I don't understand why you feel it is wrong for you? If you enjoy it, then why not? Its safer than real sex. __________________ "Challenges are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful." -Joshua J. Marine

08-11-2003, 11:36 AM	#3
toomuch Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 6	Thanks I am just worried that I have been doing it so much. Thanks for the advice.

08-11-2003, 02:04 PM	#4
ZTB Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: The State Of Insanity Posts: 6	I Was Addicted Myself For A While,You Can Stop Any Time,If Good Will Power. __________________ ...

08-11-2003, 07:16 PM	#5
SilverPlan Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 11	Agree with Lina... I agree with ZTB, I used to be addicted to it also, and heck I don't mind admitting it, but cyber sex is fun to...it seems to help you gain more experience in a way...anyways hope this helps. __________________ Wounds will heal but your mind will be scarred forever.

12-15-2003, 09:48 PM	#6
Rsix15 Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 4	Relax. that's how i spend my weekends! lol, j/k.. nah, you should definatly stop this before it gets any worse. masturbation is good every now and then, but if you do it all day, everyday.. it becomes an unhealthy obsession. this can lead to anything from sex addiction, drug use (trying substances to enhance the feeling), and, at worst, prostitution: the idea of taking something that should be valued above all else and making profit from it (don't worry, this is years and years down the line. with the help of eNotalone, you'll nip it in the butt.). but the first two can creep up on you, so try to stay away from chat rooms and talking to people you don't know for awhile.. a girl your age (which, i dont know but i'm assuming late teens) should be worrying about boyfriends, and clothes and makeup and stuff: not about when the next time you'll be getting off will be. you're not abnormal or anything, probably just going through a rocky stage of puberty. relax, take it one day at a time, and remember you'll always have your friends to go to for advice. only ask your true, 7+ year friends since they will be able to counsel you the best as they've known you the longest. __________________ --- "If what they say is, nothing is forever, then what makes... love the exception?" OutKast